First all, I'm NOT angry, just puzzled --but nonetheless, I feel this bears repeating.

I called to set something up with a fairly well-reviewed young provider out here.

When she had asked me about references, I told her I was White-listed on here --abruptly interrupting me, she said, "No, I mean references" --to which I again, responded with the White-list thing, only to have her interrupt me yet again --only this time with agitation.

When I backed off (didn't think I needed to), she said she was unable to access White-lists since she didn't have a VIP membership.

(Um, why didn't you say that instead of, "no, I mean references"?)

**I** apologized for the misunderstanding.

I then began naming some of my providers, none of which she knew.

After some other questions, she said, "It's 4:00 right now, when would you like to come by?"

Since I live relatively close, and since it SEEMED as if I could basically just pick a time, I said "How about 5?".

It was a date ...or so I thought.

Between the time we got off the phone (4:00) my leaving my home, I got a very important phone call which I had to take while in front of my computer.

When I saw I was obviously running late --and remember that it SEEMED as if she had been open time-wise, I called her at 4:35 to see if we could make it for 5:30 instead.

When I called, she didn't pick up, and I don't leave messages unless I know someone.

She called me back at 4:40, and I apologized profusely and told her the situation, requesting the later time.

She lost it.

"If you didn't think you were going to make it at 5:00, why did you make it for 5:00?!!!!!!!!!!"

More apologizing from me --clearly this was my misunderstanding.

ME: "I'm so sorry, can we just make it for later on this evening if 5:30 won't work?"

HER: (BEYOND pissed off) "Why don't you just call me later tonight when you're on your way?!!!"

Then interrupting herself with her anger, "you know what? Just call me some other time!!!!"

Click.

She calls back like 2 seconds later (maybe she's calling to apologize for flying off the handle? --no such luck)

"Can you come at 5:30 for a half-hour instead of an hour?"

Sorry guys, but I just don't do the half-hour thing like many of you --"No, I'm really sorry, I definitely want an hour --I actually NEED to have an hour".

HER: "YOU NEED AN HOUR??!!!!!! You won't take a half hour?!!"

"Well, no, sorry, but if...."

Click.

I'm sorry, did I miss something here?

According to her reviews, I was under the impression this particular provider was very easy-going.

I had no idea this was only about nothing else but head counts (no pun intended) --you know, move 'em in, move'em out!!

So the question is do you still want to see her and do you dare try this again?  Personally, I'd move on.

Tough to do when young OC GFE providers are few and far between.

But I don't need to be treated by ANYONE like that --much less someone I would presume to be paying for a service.

I found interesting that she questioned my preferring a whole hour to the half --which basically tells me that, despite her good reviews, I can't see her providing a non-rushed session.


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You definitely didn't deserve to get that kind of attitude from her from what I can see.

The only thing I can think of on her side of things is that maybe the time that you picked is a popular time and maybe someone else, or a couple someone elses, called right after you about the same time and she turned them down since you had an appointment. Then you are running late and she has something else going on personally or professionally after your session and can no longer see you or these other interested gentlemen and loses out on much of her potential earnings for that evening.

If this happens often to her I am sure that it is frustrating. I know I have definitely had days like that here in Chicago, thankfully few and far between. It still doesn't make her snapping at you right, but sometimes men don't understand that while this is a fun business, this is still BUSINESS for us ladies and our time is valuable. We need to keep to a schedule too.

Sorry you had a bad experience.
Bella

This is the primary reason I stick with older mature women. Too many younger ones just don't have a clue.

I really can list the bad times I've had with the more than 70 mature providers on half the fingers on one hand. Just my 2 cts.

Seeing as this IS theoretically a review, I should disclose her name (although I'm sure there is some TER rule that prohibits me from doing so on the forums).

I WAS going to give the "out of respect for her" speech, but then I realized there IS none to be had --ALSO out the window with the second "click".

SO --as a "compromise" of sorts, I will only say that I was very surprised she was so SOUR towards me.

'nuff said.

On to better...

The rest of the community will benefit from having an understanding of how this young lady treats her customers. You should reveal her name.

Vato.