i was wondering why it's difficult to get white list referals from providers.only a couple have done it for me(and they're top-shelf in everyhting they do),even though i ask most of the time.i get
"sure babe",and end up with nothing.is it a long process to do it?
also,are the guys asking for a white list?i don't understand if you don't.this is another form of "verification"that makes it easier to see a new provider.are you getting same response as me.

I have never been refused a whitelisting and probably don't ask often enough.  Some providers, if they are not fully familiar with TER may not know how to do it.  I agree, it is an excellent additional verification

I whitelist any gent who has reviewed me, if he hasn't reviewed me, its harder for me to remember to whitelist because I might not remember his TER handle.  (alot of gents dont contact me thru TER they go thru my website or directly email me).

Also are the ladies you've seen all members here on TER? if they aren't members (even if they have reviews doesn't mean they are active here).  If they aren't active on TER, they probably aren't white listing anyone.

i always review providers unless they request i don't.all the girls i see have multiple reviews on .t.e.r.,or i don't see them.thanks to bfe for explaining the process for to me.it's very easy.
must be just some of girls i've seen

I checked out your Profile. You have more than enough reviews and several whitelists. A couple of the ladies from Cleveland, Chase and AD, are in a class by themselves and anybody who sees that those two have whitelisted you, as well as a couple others,  should have no further questions about your integrity. If those credentials are not enough for someone then take a pass and see someone else. Don't sweat the small stuff.

Just an Old, Ugly, Fat Fuck with an opinion.

I have no issue white listing a gentleman, if I would highly recommend them to another companion. If on the other hand, the gentleman overstayed his welcome...short changed me...or we didn't click at all, I will not white list him. In addition, approximately once or twice a year, I will go through my white listings and uncheck any gentleman that I haven't seen within the last 12 months. A lot can change in a 12 month period of time, that's why I won't give a referral for a gentleman that I haven't seen in the last 12 months. This reminds me, it's probably about time to go through that list again.

Some companions won't white list you until they have seen you, at a minimum, two times. I don't follow that policy personally, but I do know some that do.

Paris