Gents, are you ever worried that you have given/told a provider TOO much information about your personal life?  Are you ever worried that if you upset that provider in one way or another, that she will 'out' you to your family and place of employment?

Ladies, are you ever worried that you have told too much of your personal history/info to a client or another provider?  Are you worried about the client falling in love, and 'stalking' you?  Ladies, are you afraid that another provider will use you personal info to 'black-mail' you?

Just curious as to everyone's thoughts on this matter.  It seems we have some members of our community with very 'loose lips' and vindictive personalities.

Kisses
Molly

...seems there are two issues here:

1) your original query: how much info is too much info to hand over?
2) untrustworthy and mean/vindictive people

The challenge is...if someone is untrustworthy, any amount of personal info is too much to hand over.  Which begs the question...how do you know who you can trust?

My penis size is probably my biggest embarrassing secret sooooo.....

I took down a lot of info I had on P411 as screening material when I reviewed someone (now banned fromTER) and she tried to cause trouble.  Turns oiut her string of 10's were bogus and she didn't appreciate the 5/6 me and a couple of others gave her.  Now I give very little info.  Hopefully my whitelists and review history speak for themselves.  (When I don't use an alias)

... if you tell the wrong person.  How many guys (or providers) have walked to their car with their date, without thinking about (or worrying about) the possibility of having their license plate tracked down?  How many guys have used their "real" phone because their hobby phone was lost or dead, or they were too cheap to buy one?

I will plead guilty, but I am also careful with who I trust.  I have gotten close with a number of girls, and haven't been burned yet, but there is a first time for everything.

I am single and don't really have too much to lose.  For guys with a wife and family, you might want to be more careful.

Get my name. Get a business email or personal email. I won't chit chat about my family while I fuck you. Be careful whom you share with for that person you are amiable with today may vilify you tomorrow.