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I've been a companion for 5 years and for the first time ever, I had to physically remove a man from my room. I should have trusted my gut instinct and never booked a rendezvous with this man. From the first email conversation, he was complaining about my rates. I should've just cut it off at that point. :-( He booked a one hour session with me and arrived on time. Upon entering my corridor the interrogation began....how old are you, how long have you been doing this....yada yada yada. Again, I should've just walked his ass back to the door! Finally, we made it to the bed and we got down to business in which I must say, he seemed quite pleased. At 4:05 he looked at the clock and knew our time had ended 5 minutes prior. I got up, cleaned him up and put my robe on. Okay...so, here's your sign...must be time to go. But no, he decides he wants to chit chat about absolutely nothing on my time. I literally had to start picking this mans clothes up off the floor and start handing them to him....this was about 20 minutes after our session ended. Slowly, he starts dressing. Yes....finally, he's dressed and ready to go. Ummmm nope, he now wants to stand in the living room for another 25 minutes interrogating my business, again on my time. WTF!!!! At this point, he has overstayed 45 + minutes and he still has no intentions of going anywhere anytime soon. I have to admit, I'd had enough. So, I took his hand and led him to the door. Then, he wanted to camp out at the door and chat. Finally, I opened the door and physically removed him from my room. This man paid me for 1 hour of my time and overstayed nearly a freaking hour, in my opinion, that's rude and disrespectful. Upon closing the door, I thought to myself....I can't wait to see this mans review. LOL Sure enough, bigbird came through with exactly what I expected.

With all of this being said, ladies- how would you handle a situation like this? Hell, I even asked him if he wanted to extend the session at 4:05pm and he declined.

Gentlemen- Do you feel that I was being too forward by physically removing him from my room after he overstayed damn near an hour?

Paris Bouvier

You're a well-reviewed, highly valued companion. A couple of things surprise me about this-
1) You didn't kick him out sooner. "I'm sorry sweetie, but you've overstayed your time, and if you don't want to extend and compensate me, then you must leave now!"
2) You made the appointment with him in the first place when he complained about rates. It should have been the end of communication.
But, I'm sorry that happened to you, you don't deserve it and he's obviously an ass.

Interesting....

If she really had an issue with the actual experience and wanted genuine feedback, she would have, of course, posted her comments right after the appointment.

Instead, she's trying to deflect attention from the fact that she does not deliver on the expectations she sets.

So, she has been in the hobby for 5 years and hasn't figured out how to politely end a session....

So, she has been in the hobby for 5 years and hasn't figured out to check out a guys reviews to see if his expectations are in line with what she can deliver.  His review of her is very consistent with many other reviews he's written.

Seems like she is just bitter.

-- Modified on 5/17/2012 11:18:43 PM

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Paris,

You were correct to get him out of the door as soon as you can. You were fortunate that this jerk didn't try to beat the crap out of you when you were forcing him out of the door.

Those are the kinds of jerks that makes us honest hobbyists look bad.

I will take a guess that for a while, the next few guys that you will be seeing will be the unfortunate ones that will bear your anxiety if the guys overstay their welcome by a few minutes. I hope that this is not the case, but it wouldn't surprise me if it did.

Now, I have overstayed my welcome on a few occasions and I have apologized to those ladies, but in every case, they told me not to worry about it because they were having a great time and did not mind me staying a bit past the hour. I even offered more money, every time they refused. At least I did try to do the honest thing.

Obviously, this jerk will put us honest hobbyists back to square one with you.

Serpius

Posted By: Paris-Bouvier
I've been a companion for 5 years and for the first time ever, I had to physically remove a man from my room. I should have trusted my gut instinct and never booked a rendezvous with this man. From the first email conversation, he was complaining about my rates. I should've just cut it off at that point. :-( He booked a one hour session with me and arrived on time. Upon entering my corridor the interrogation began....how old are you, how long have you been doing this....yada yada yada. Again, I should've just walked his ass back to the door! Finally, we made it to the bed and we got down to business in which I must say, he seemed quite pleased. At 4:05 he looked at the clock and knew our time had ended 5 minutes prior. I got up, cleaned him up and put my robe on. Okay...so, here's your sign...must be time to go. But no, he decides he wants to chit chat about absolutely nothing on my time. I literally had to start picking this mans clothes up off the floor and start handing them to him....this was about 20 minutes after our session ended. Slowly, he starts dressing. Yes....finally, he's dressed and ready to go. Ummmm nope, he now wants to stand in the living room for another 25 minutes interrogating my business, again on my time. WTF!!!! At this point, he has overstayed 45 + minutes and he still has no intentions of going anywhere anytime soon. I have to admit, I'd had enough. So, I took his hand and led him to the door. Then, he wanted to camp out at the door and chat. Finally, I opened the door and physically removed him from my room. This man paid me for 1 hour of my time and overstayed nearly a freaking hour, in my opinion, that's rude and disrespectful. Upon closing the door, I thought to myself....I can't wait to see this mans review. LOL Sure enough, bigbird came through with exactly what I expected.

With all of this being said, ladies- how would you handle a situation like this? Hell, I even asked him if he wanted to extend the session at 4:05pm and he declined.

Gentlemen- Do you feel that I was being too forward by physically removing him from my room after he overstayed damn near an hour?

Paris Bouvier

Doesn't poison the whole barrel.  Most of us know how to act.  Sorry for your bad experience

Well for first she doesn't even have the body or attitude for those prices,,little over kill if you ask me, shes very friendly on here to sucker the guy's in Shes definitively not late 30 more like mid 40's which is a lie and she claims petite?..uh no another lie,, i think you need to retire hunny...that's my opinion i have seen better for less.

Can you explain to me how your rude response has anything to do with the original post or this gentleman's statement????

Sounds to me he needs some direction on manners......very inconsiderate

My review spoke the truth.  I am the one that should have left after being deceived by her pictures.

I was watching the time she wasn't.  I was dressed and ready to go at 5 minutes after the hour, which actually started late since she was slow to give me the room number.

She was very talkative and made no attempt to rush me out the door.  I may have left about 20 minutes past the hour rt the most, just willingly talking with her.  She never suggested extending the appointment, in fact she said she had another coming right after me.  She never physically pushed me out the door, what a lie.

Notice that the 4 guys that came to her defense have not reviewed her, probably have not even seen her.

If she posted a real picture of her nude guys would not spend her premium price.

I guess she "can't handle the truth"


-- Modified on 5/7/2012 7:30:05 AM

To my defense, I have 159 reviews that says otherwise, BigBird. Exactly what do you have for your line of defense???? Unfortunately for you, I also dug up a little additional juice about you. Like when you posted a fake review of a provider that you had never seen because you wanted your free time on TER. Way to go Big Bird, that's the way to work it!

By the way, you owe me 300.00 for that extra hour you decided to steal from me. Now, go ask mommy for some additional lunch money!

One of the gentlemen that posted I have spent time with. Not only once....but twice! LMAO

And I enjoyed every minute and look forward to our next meeting.

I have been wanting to meet you but our schedules just have not worked out yet.  You probably are correct but older wealth men can be quite demanding too.  Goods and services need to be as advertised.  Consumer reports keep everyone honest.

my lowest scores, but I still see them because I got the money did I not lol. I don't cherry pick reviews and refuse to see guys who give low scores. I have confidence in my service, and a hard grader just makes me want to prove him wrong ha ha. Thanks for the complient btw, but "horse" in your handle scares the living crap out of me lol. I do not have a "well used" kitty by any means...more like handicapped bwahahaha.

I am betting  that your kitty will give me a good run for my money!  To mix metaphors even more...Don't judge a Horse by its ..cover!

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I am sure Paris is a great lady...seems to have good business sense BUT is not honest with herself.  She is great with advertising and should really update her photos and create a MILF profile.  Honestly guys, you aren't getting what is adveritse.  Google her images....look for the one of her lying on a couch in a neon pink top while sucking on a lollipop.  Thats closer to what you REALLY get.  Now if she was advertising a MILF, then it's fine.  She's got to reinvent herself and her rlwebsite.  Honesty is important and she's shocking people.   If Paris left Orlando for Ohio thinking the men there would believe her website she's wrong!  Paris...you are good with you adertising techniques so put it to use and make change your website to honest photos and give the guys a hot MILF.  Good luck

Posted By: RussinGuy951
My review spoke the truth.  I am the one that should have left after being deceived by her pictures.

I was watching the time she wasn't.  I was dressed and ready to go at 5 minutes after the hour, which actually started late since she was slow to give me the room number.

She was very talkative and made no attempt to rush me out the door.  I may have left about 20 minutes past the hour rt the most, just willingly talking with her.  She never suggested extending the appointment, in fact she said she had another coming right after me.  She never physically pushed me out the door, what a lie.

Notice that the 4 guys that came to her defense have not reviewed her, probably have not even seen her.

If she posted a real picture of her nude guys would not spend her premium price.

I guess she "can't handle the truth"


-- Modified on 5/7/2012 7:30:05 AM

And by the way I plan on making a meeting very soon.  Just had some time troubles but we will get together soon.

Forward???   I think you were being damned restrained.  

Posted By: Paris-Bouvier
I've been a companion for 5 years and for the first time ever, I had to physically remove a man from my room. I should have trusted my gut instinct and never booked a rendezvous with this man. From the first email conversation, he was complaining about my rates. I should've just cut it off at that point. :-( He booked a one hour session with me and arrived on time. Upon entering my corridor the interrogation began....how old are you, how long have you been doing this....yada yada yada. Again, I should've just walked his ass back to the door! Finally, we made it to the bed and we got down to business in which I must say, he seemed quite pleased. At 4:05 he looked at the clock and knew our time had ended 5 minutes prior. I got up, cleaned him up and put my robe on. Okay...so, here's your sign...must be time to go. But no, he decides he wants to chit chat about absolutely nothing on my time. I literally had to start picking this mans clothes up off the floor and start handing them to him....this was about 20 minutes after our session ended. Slowly, he starts dressing. Yes....finally, he's dressed and ready to go. Ummmm nope, he now wants to stand in the living room for another 25 minutes interrogating my business, again on my time. WTF!!!! At this point, he has overstayed 45 + minutes and he still has no intentions of going anywhere anytime soon. I have to admit, I'd had enough. So, I took his hand and led him to the door. Then, he wanted to camp out at the door and chat. Finally, I opened the door and physically removed him from my room. This man paid me for 1 hour of my time and overstayed nearly a freaking hour, in my opinion, that's rude and disrespectful. Upon closing the door, I thought to myself....I can't wait to see this mans review. LOL Sure enough, bigbird came through with exactly what I expected.

With all of this being said, ladies- how would you handle a situation like this? Hell, I even asked him if he wanted to extend the session at 4:05pm and he declined.

Gentlemen- Do you feel that I was being too forward by physically removing him from my room after he overstayed damn near an hour?

Paris Bouvier

There are three threads about this in GD as of now...not your case of course, but general reviews of people much older than stated.

Wow, this was a shock bc I was going to see her along few other horny older guys. Sorry Paris. This hurts.

No wonder I have seen so many escorts that just don't live up to their reviews in appearance and performance.  Without open and honest reviews, TER is useless.  I know of one reviewer who had his reviews removed after an escort complained to TER.  Interestingly, I had a similar experience with one of the escorts that he honestly reviewed.  He was actually more generous than I was.  Since that experience, I rarely write reviews.  If nobody respects honest and accurate reviews...why bother?   Just tell me if they are real escorts or not.  If I like my experience, I will repeat.  One man's plain Jane is another man's goddess.  You might not meet Big Bird's expectations but you might be my ATF.  If not, I go on to the next.  With all the glamour shots, aged pics, phony pics and scams, the deck is stacked in favor of the escorts.  Escorts aren't the only ones that get screwed.  While one bad review won't cause me to not see a lady that I am interested in, it might lower my expectations a bit.  Granted, I might also be a bit wary.  I have no problem in an escort responding to a bad review but this is getting out of hand.

Now, I do not negotiate and I do not overstay my time, however, I bet there are far more examples of escorts that give guys the bum's rush (no pun intended) and short them on time.  There are 3 versions of the truth...yours, mine and the truth.  Paris, I have never heard any escort tell me that after reminding someone that their time was up that they had a problem with them not leaving.  The burden of communication is on the communicator.  Paris, you seem to be overreacting.  You have great reviews.  You do more damage by making a big deal out of this.

I updated the freaking pictures and look better now than I did in 2010, so why not. Fact is some guys are easily impressed with any women who had their d*ck in their mouth at the time...others, not so much. If this was a malicious review that's one thing, but you can't use your past reviews to try and dismiss the experience another person has. I too have a ton of reviews...over 200 combined on various boards, but that does not mean I am going to be every guy's cup of tea. I have fake reviews up as we speak, but I will be damned if I start a thread about it attracting even MORE attention to that review lol.

you kept control of the situation. Bet he doesn't go out again.

It seems almost sad when providers are on the downside of their careers and are trying to hold on by using old pictures.  Charging a premium price is clearly a "late in the product life cycle" strategy.  Ladies get fewer and fewer appointments and repeats and as a result have to charge more and more and set expectations that the product doesn't deliver.

As you read her post you can sense her bitterness in her tone- very petty and nit-picking - and you'll notice she doesn't dispute one item in the review.  The review seems fair and balanced...she is in panic mode as her business is declining and the feedback on her appearance and performance is starting to catch up to her and she sees the imminent further decline.

Instead of repositioning herself more in line with what she can actually deliver, she desparately tries to hold on to a false promise.  

Too bad she doesn't be true to what she is- talk about herself as an older MILF, price the service accordingly, and EXCEED peoples expectations.

Lots of smart ladies embrace their maturity, are successful and happy.

This hobby is too fun to allow bitterness to take over.




This happens to me quite frequently, the guys who won't take a hint. I will get dressed and they will still be naked sitting there bullshitting about the weather or something. Usually I handle it by saying I'd love for them to stay longer, but I have another appointment right after theirs.

I wouldn't let someone overstay 45 minutes. If the guy wouldn't leave after I told him the appointment is over, I would threaten to call the motel/police and have him removed. His donation would already be in my pocket/bra/wallet, and if he tried to take it back from me i'd file assault charges. My safety is more important than him giving a bad review or taking internet revenge.

I've only had a situation like this where the guy would not leave once. After the first hour, he paid for another hour, and after that, he still refused to leave until i threatened him with legal action.

ps - what is bigbird? and what are some sites that the girls review the guys on? please PM me and let me know thanks.

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