Just to show what a pleasant date I am lol.........what MUST your perfect date have? something that absolutely can't suffer in the slightest.

I realize that now, as I have became HE massage/couples play only, my receiving this may be sparse but without the DFK sessions are mediocre at best.

Passionate enthusiastic DFK

Dfk, and her actually being there not phoning it in.

laughter. Preferably BEFORE I get naked (used to it after). If I can make her laugh and/or she can make me laugh then I know its going to be a good comfortable session.  

Best one yet was years ago.  Introductory hug and kiss then she pulled me closer for dfk and said "this is going to be fun"  it was