I had a client a few weeks ago, who said he was new & hadn't ever seen anyone before.... ( I usually dnt accept anyone new, but every now & then if I can verify another way....due to alot of ter ppl trying to say they are new & then find they try to pull some bullshit on ya).  
   
 The day arrives.  
 His appt. is for 1pm, he doesn't follow my directions to the right exit, so he calls like 20mins after. Well he's only 10minutes away, but he seems to lollygag getting here, which he finally arrives at 1:40 & we get him inside & greeted 1:45, then he says he wants a 2 hour appt.....(I explain a 2-hour appt. needs to be arranged in advance & if he wud have arrived at his scheduled 1pm there wud be no issue & I say we can but)  
 I explain to him, I have the cable guy coming to fix my cable between 3 & 5pm, I explain it broke an hour after they finally installed it, which I waited a mth for them cuz they kept missing the appts. well they wud say they were here & I go on & tell him, I have a friend coming at 3pm to help me watch for the cable in case I have an appt or I need to do an outcal, so it's not really a problem.  
 So we chat, I flirt around in my lingere to get us comfortable, (I'm usually easy going about not counting the 1st few minutes of an appt especially if I'm the one talking about somthing (the cable issue)).  
 Approx 2pm we go upstairs & get started, so after they finish it's around 2:40 or more & were just messing around waiting to get ready for the 2nd go around...... well my phone rings, which I ignore, but a few minutes later I realize its 3:15, I look outside & see my friend out there so I quickly tell him I gotta call my friend to let them kno the door's unlocked ( i hang up & hear him say a snide comment about my being interested/worried bout the cable, which I said oh, no, it's fine I jus cudnt leave him wondering) (If Id have known I was doing a 2hour appt. I wouldn't have someone outside walking around) ...  
  So a few mins pass, wer playin around, then he says he hears something (I dnt) he again says no I hear somthing someone is here...(yes my friend & the cable guy)(which I didn't hear, so I get up & say I will look & I open the door) so there at the bottom of the stairs is the cable guy entering w/my friend. I quickly shut the door cuz I'm naked & said omgoosh it's just the cable guy & I get back in bed (& reminded him, he wnt be disturbing us)...Welp it's about 3:25 & he seems rather perturbed or I dnt know, (cuz in the last half an hour he didn't really seem to get hard again, which upon arrival he had said he hadn't been with anyone in like 2yrs cuz he's raising his 2daughters & said he takes alot of time getting his little head ready& is why he wants 2hours)...so he says, he's not comfortable with someone else being there & gets dressed...(shudn't he hav said that wen he arrived & I explained the cable situation?).  
 Many guys after they reach age 40 (which he was over) do have a hard time going a 2nd pop, average guys generally 15-20mins of down time which he had stated in the begining it takes him long awhile.  
   
 Which is fine.......but my question is, he only paid for 1 hour.......I realize he wasn't getting hard after his pop, but even without counting the 1st 15mins get to kno each other time (which he was telling me  about hisself as well as my letting him kno the cable guy was scheduled to show between 3 & 5pm), it was approx 3:30, wen he went downstairs, he had been inside almost 2 full hours, not counting the 40minutes he was late (why he chose to go to a different exit I dnt kno).  
 I feel I gave over a half hour trying to get him ready to go again, so even if he doesn't finish a 2nd time, he did use my time.  
 I deal with alot of very rude disrespectful ppl, who if I dnt kiss their ass always decide to get even with me for not getting their way....  
 and this guy made me feel like I disrespected him!!!!  
 I'm curious why he lied about being a member of ter & why he told me he hadnt seen any other girls.  
 Also this guy was like a boxer or some kind of professional fighter, his muscles huge (I'm strong but he cud easily overpower me, so now I kinda wonder why he insisted I be alone in a private residence, why hadn't he paid for the 2nd hour up front, was it his intention to only pay for 1hr anyways, no matter how long he stayed?  
 I can understand the guy thinking that the cable guy wudn't show up at exactly 3pm, not once did he say anything of how he wanted to handle the situation except he said he wantd the 2hours....and then it was like we wud play it by ear, he didnt ask anything wen I said I had a friend who wud be watching for the cable guy???  
 Am I in the wrong for not just letting the cable guy show up & then not answer the door & then try to re-schedule for another day.    
 If he would have shown up at 1pm, there wudn't have been an issue, which I stated wen he said he wantd 2hours (I mean that was just totally disrespecting 45minutes of my time, & HE ABSOLUTELY SHOWED NO REMORSE FOR THIS, LIKE HE SCHEDULED SO i'M JUST OBLIGATED TO LET MY TIME BE WASTED ).  
 That cost me money, I cud have gone ahead & scheduled a noon appt. since he didn't arrive until 1:40.  
 Wenever I have someone scheduled for 1pm, I can't accept any of my regs calling last minute for an appt. after 11am (cuz they need drive time, then I need clean up & get ready time).  
 But then I find he has been a member of ter & he didn't give me a review(no one is obligated to giv a review, but usually wen they wait, it's cuz it's going to be negative). Which I gave outstanding service.  
 So am I wrong???? Like when someone schedules an appt. I should just automatically know that now I can't do anything else all day before or after?