Wondering if there are any tips for someone new to the craft - I've dabbled in my college days down in Akron but it was always a drunken blur. I'm up in Cleveland now and have started a career and am looking for advice on having some fun on the side of the fiancé.
Check the newby board for a wealth of information on getting started
Any tips for playing it 'safe' in Cleveland? Providers not to see, providers to start with, tips on avoiding LE?
Parthree gave you some solid advice. You'll find answers to many of you questions on the Newbie board:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/messageList.asp?boardID=33
And in the self-help center:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=33&Page=1&Messageid=75528
You're best bet is to give this content a read through a couple times. Then, if you still have questions...post them to the newbie board.
I hope you found what your looking for
Both gentlemen gave perfect advice.
I'll add a few things: Think with your big head and not your little one. Don't rush into a decision that you put yourself into a bad situation. Very rarely will will you find an amazing deal. Just like most things in life, you get what you pay for. You will have to give up personal information to see quality ladies. Get over it. Most importantly have fun and laugh.
Do a google search for USA Sex.
Very helpful supplement to TER.
Tons of information and a wider spectrum of perspectives.
Will be whether or not you're resigned to losing your fiance?
Think about this long and hard.
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Why would he lose his fiance? Most of us have an SO and the purpose of this is discretion.
Women aren't stupid. Especially those whom you share a bed with. I also don't condone LEAVING someone just to hobby. My god who would voluntarily Commit themselves to a vice?
Personally, I think cheaters are jackasses. No wonder we are seen as the "great infidel". We have NO moral fortitude. I don't blame the hookers because they aren't the ones married or engaged or what have you. If I ever did meet one though who refused to see married men, she would have my absolute respect.
Most men would consider me "lucky" to have a wife who, for a while, agreed to allow me "company" above and beyond HER. Of course, this was only due to her own UTR past. She has recently decided that its not healthy for our marriage. I am more than happy to comply with her wishes. Hookers aren't anything to me, anyways, other than entertainment. I don't consider myself "lucky", I consider myself "accommodated. "Lucky" would have been my seeing hobbying as foolish.
I'm not everyones "moral police" but I've NO respect for those who cheat. When I made my vows, to "Love, Honor and Cherish", my commitment to her wasn't comparable to wearing a pair of shoes which you take off when convenient.
Yet you have 5 reviews posted this year
it will answer most all basic questions.main thing is getting started.you need to find someone who will see "newbies"to get some references.the first time(at least)you'll have to provide your real name and place of employment before you'll be seen be rep.providers.
... can you break up w/ your fiancé?
Your life...& this hobby will be much simpler.
But I understand if you're trying to have the best of both worlds. But if you're not married & have no kids w/ her...it's a no brainer.
I was thinking much the same thing. Except...
Even if you are married. I think divorce is better for everyone.
Even if you have kids. I think staying together is a bad idea.
People stay together because of many reasons. But mostly it is out of fear. Fear of social consequences. Fear of being alone. Fear of failure. Fear of change. Fear of breaking vows made before an all-powerful bogeyman.
If you end it, it will be better for both of you.
... and question why anyone would cheat on their fiancee. I can understand a sexless marriage, or an open marriage. I can understand cheating on a GF who you may or may not be serious about. But cheating on a fiancee??? That is just cold.
Better be careful lol. These folks don't care much for honest and outspoken individuals. They're too afraid to upset the womenfolk.
Only one "unwise" hooker amongst the board though. The others remained quiet knowing that "cheaters" put food in their mouths. You think these girls would marry a cheater? Lol
Btw folks........the term cheater has a "covert" tag attached to it. For those among you of the confused variety
Remembering everyone has an opinion, they aren't all right nor all wrong.....Be careful, Be smart- don't let your little head do the thinking (especially when you come across sexy pictures in the ad), research, an reviews help, but some reviews might make the girl sound like she's over the top (probably fullfilled the guy's total fanatasy) while another reviewer might make her sound like she shouldn't be in the biz (probaly she wudn't do somthing he wanted).
The newbies board is suppose to be very helpful. Also becarful cuz some seem to give bad advice, so weigh out wat makes sense. And most important have fun, I feel as long as you aren't hurting anyone, it is your life, your choices, in the end you are the one who is responsible for you. We all have our vice's & none of us have ever been perfect & none of us ever will be, those who judge just don't want you looking at them & their choices. Good luck to ya
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