Sent a request for an appointment yesterday through P411.  How long would you wait for a response before moving on?

if she looks like this!!!

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I guess it depends on what your schedule is like and what the ad your anwsering is like.

If I am looking for a same day appointment I usually try to mention in my inquiry what the time frame is as far as responding back and still being able to get together.

Outside of that, if a girl is advertised as in town and on call, I will not bother with waiting more than a day tops. If a girl has an ad running but might not always be on call then I could understand more of a delay. I am a stickler though on getting a response back as a courtesy even if the date and time is not good. I don't see the point in chasing someone in this game, if they don't respond back then they obviosuly are doing fine and don't need my $$$, I'll move on and wait to contact someone who is interested.

I think some girls would do well to pay someone to anwser their calls and emails, I am sure some get too many to anwser, yet it is very frustrating to respond and not hear back. Blows my mind to think about how much money some of the ladies lose through not getting back with respondants to their ads, it seems like a waste of money to pay for the ads and only get back with a fraction if anyone.

I have called a provider everyday this week at least twice.   Every time I get that her voice mail is full and can't leave a message.   I texted her.   I left a call back number.  No response.  Come on.  NO ONE is that busy.   If so, she would be the most successful provider in Columbus.  If she wasn't so hot and I have wanted to see her for a long time, I would give up.   Oh  well... tomorrow is another day.   I am holding on to my provider budget until she answers or I cant wait any longer.

No offense but in the middle of all of that don't you kinda ask yourself, why am I trying so hard to give my money to someone...lol...I can understand wanting to see a certain person, to an extent, but it just seems like a lot of time and hassle and frustration - like I said if they don't get back just figure they are set when it comes to $$$ and move on.

There is a gal from Louisville I really wanted to see that tours through here, a one day stay, a couple times a month and after 3 times contacting her and her getting back only after she had already left, recommending me to try again next time, I decided to forget about seeing her. She was nice enough and all but I just think it is goofy to try to knock someones door down to see them when you are the paying customer. I only tried 3 times because she is really hot, I usually call it a bust after 2 times.

Remember you can always go and find something else to do - and it doesn't have to be hobby related. I do this to have fun without hassle -when it becomes to much of a hassle to have fun I hang on to my $$ and find something else to do.

Something tells me that if more gents did this instead of begging and pleading to see some of these gals that we all would have more luck getting responses and such. I don't blame the gals for blowing guys off without a response, they know the gents will continue to try.

Excellent post. Sometimes a Lady may not have the time or frankly, the inclination. That's human nature and life in general.

No offense taken....  if I  talked to her once and still no go... I would quit.   Meanwhile... I am doing the non hobby related stuff... like trying like hell to break 80... but that is my golf budget.  I guess I am a little OCD... I have a budget for everything.   I have tried the young spinners..without a lot of satisfaction.... this lady is more expierenced and may be worth the wait... I will let you know.

in subject put something like"i want to meet"or"like an appointment"so they know you serious
p.s.april(see my rev.)said see got 400 EMAILS requesting a appointment when she visited boston
top-line girls may be busy/accid.blow bye your email/ect
if no response after 3-4 message in 2 weesk,iam done
p.s. who is it?i may provide 411.i deal with this a lot(iam not vip currently,so i don't get email
good luck

you have PM

Hey ParThree,

If I wanted something by the end of the week and it's at the beginning of the week, then it's 24 hour wait for me.

If I plan in a few weeks in advance, then I give her 48 hours to respond.

So, at the most, I'd wait 48 hours. If no response, then I move onto the next provider. I can't keep on waiting for the first one because of time constraints.

Serpius

not vip currently,so ic an't get it.sorry

I wish I could get those types of Calls--Too many to handle--It is rare that I have calls waiting while scheduling an appointment. I want to know where they advertise lol In my own defense I have missed a few appointments simply because I have a life and I am not sitting on the couch everyday waiting for a call, and I can't leave a doctor's appointment to play. I would love to have clients I could trust to give my entire schedule so we don't miss anytime together.

As a provider if you try too hard and she keeps seeing your number she might be afraid of you. Spread out your contact that is the best advice I can give you.

makes me regret asking my clients not to write reviews

Sorry, $80 is an insult and perfect for a young spinner. Quality, true quality is never cheap.