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Re: Screen, screen, screen.
lickalotapuss 15 Reviews 1160 reads
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1 / 25

I enjoy giving oral to women but I'm not sure if that's a good idea with a random provider.Is that something that is ok with some of the higher class providers? How safe is it?

3!turtle3 1157 reads
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2 / 25

"High Class" providers have been genetically engineered to be immune to most STD's.  

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iliketofarm 854 reads
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3 / 25
zguy8 2 Reviews 787 reads
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4 / 25

You seem like you might be a newbie to this. If so, experiment and see for yourself. Research is fun.

I, for one, hope you stick around bc that's got to be one of the greatest handles on this board. You sound like a really cool dinosaur species. If there were more lickalotapusses 50 million years ago, dinosaurs might never have gone extinct!

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 993 reads
posted
5 / 25

But the risk is the same (if not higher) if you were to ask the same question about the general female population. I don't have stats on this, so someone please correct me if I'm wrong, but it's my understanding that providers tend to be more conscientious about their sexual health than the average woman.  

However, as I said before, there's going to be a risk anytime you engage in unprotected sexual activity. If it worries you too much, try dental dams.  
Posted By: lickalotapuss
I enjoy giving oral to women but I'm not sure if that's a good idea with a random provider.Is that something that is ok with some of the higher class providers? How safe is it?

OSP 26 Reviews 772 reads
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6 / 25
iliketofarm 717 reads
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7 / 25

I have only anecdotal evidence, but I don't think your assumption is safe. No doubt there are providers who pay attention to their sexual health. But there are also providers who don't. And worse, there are providers who are willing to do things they absolutely should not for some fast cash.

I have a "do not call" list of providers in Cincinnati. I use that list to cross-reference the dudes who have seen, i.e., written reviews of or otherwise posted about, both. I get hit after hit after hit doing that. Why? Because way too many providers don't actually check out who a potential client has seen.

This "hobby" is not healthy. There's no two ways about it.

BCG, you may be one of those providers who has some sense. But you are outnumbered. Vastly outnumbered. And right in your own backyard.

I was seeing one provider regularly who I thought was smart, sensible, even honest. Nope, nope, nope. Turns out she'd see anyone with a fistful of dollars. And that is why I quit.

I'm not worried about HIV, though maybe I should be. I'm worried about all the other shit.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 822 reads
posted
8 / 25

You make a very good point. I have only anecdotal evidence as well, but by that same token, a TER Top 100 lady was recently reviewed as offering BBFS for the right price. Just goes to show you that there are unsafe practices all over the place. No me gusta.  

I'd rather live in my car than risk my health, but that's just me.  

I wonder if there's a study out there regarding the STD rates of providers vs. civvies. I'm gonna look around. I shall report back with my findings.  
Posted By: iliketofarm
I have only anecdotal evidence, but I don't think your assumption is safe. No doubt there are providers who pay attention to their sexual health. But there are also providers who don't. And worse, there are providers who are willing to do things they absolutely should not for some fast cash.  
   
 I have a "do not call" list of providers in Cincinnati. I use that list to cross-reference the dudes who have seen, i.e., written reviews of or otherwise posted about, both. I get hit after hit after hit doing that. Why? Because way too many providers don't actually check out who a potential client has seen.  
   
 This "hobby" is not healthy. There's no two ways about it.  
   
 BCG, you may be one of those providers who has some sense. But you are outnumbered. Vastly outnumbered. And right in your own backyard.  
   
 I was seeing one provider regularly who I thought was smart, sensible, even honest. Nope, nope, nope. Turns out she'd see anyone with a fistful of dollars. And that is why I quit.  
   
 I'm not worried about HIV, though maybe I should be. I'm worried about all the other shit.

iliketofarm 764 reads
posted
9 / 25

Cool. (Not the Top 100 provider. That's not at all cool.) A third useful comparative stat would be STD rates among adult film actors.

lickalotapuss 15 Reviews 648 reads
posted
10 / 25

Thanks for all the info. Now I guess since I'm new to this the next step would be researching which  providers would be good candidates for my request. I suppose its unusual to look for a provider to give rather than receive but that's what I'm looking for. My gf loves to do everything else but is very uncomfortable with that so I need to fill that void.

lickalotapuss 15 Reviews 775 reads
posted
11 / 25

Thanks! It just came naturally haha.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 664 reads
posted
12 / 25

Well, the best place to start would probably be asking the guys here to give you some recommendations per your location and budget.  

Posted By: lickalotapuss
Thanks for all the info. Now I guess since I'm new to this the next step would be researching which  providers would be good candidates for my request. I suppose its unusual to look for a provider to give rather than receive but that's what I'm looking for. My gf loves to do everything else but is very uncomfortable with that so I need to fill that void.  

lickalotapuss 15 Reviews 582 reads
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13 / 25

Sounds like a plan. Budget isn't a huge deal and I live in Columbus area but will travel.  So do you have anyone you recommend  BadCollegeGirl ?  

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Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
Well, the best place to start would probably be asking the guys here to give you some recommendations per your location and budget.  
   
Posted By: lickalotapuss
Thanks for all the info. Now I guess since I'm new to this the next step would be researching which  providers would be good candidates for my request. I suppose its unusual to look for a provider to give rather than receive but that's what I'm looking for. My gf loves to do everything else but is very uncomfortable with that so I need to fill that void.  

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 731 reads
posted
14 / 25

Well, without being a twat and recommending myself (I'm in Cincy), I will ALWAYS recommend my dear Marilyn Maxwell (beautiful, smart, upscale, and one of the coolest chicks you'll ever meet). Nikki Haven, Eva Loren, and Kate Hawn are all on par with MM, from what I've heard. All of them are based in Columbus. In Cleveland, Chase Cameron is your best bet.  

However, take what I say with a grain of salt, because I'm a provider and therefore can't really give you the same perspective. Start a thread asking for recommendations. The guys will respond.  
Posted By: lickalotapuss
Sounds like a plan. Budget isn't a huge deal and I live in Columbus area but will travel.  So do you have anyone you recommend  BadCollegeGirl ?  
   
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Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
Well, the best place to start would probably be asking the guys here to give you some recommendations per your location and budget.    
     
Posted By: lickalotapuss
Thanks for all the info. Now I guess since I'm new to this the next step would be researching which  providers would be good candidates for my request. I suppose its unusual to look for a provider to give rather than receive but that's what I'm looking for. My gf loves to do everything else but is very uncomfortable with that so I need to fill that void.  

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 675 reads
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15 / 25

I shall compile this data.  

Posted By: iliketofarm
Cool. (Not the Top 100 provider. That's not at all cool.) A third useful comparative stat would be STD rates among adult film actors.

lickalotapuss 15 Reviews 623 reads
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16 / 25

Thanks! I was hoping you would recomend yourself. I saw your beautiful pics. ;)

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
Well, without being a twat and recommending myself (I'm in Cincy), I will ALWAYS recommend my dear Marilyn Maxwell (beautiful, smart, upscale, and one of the coolest chicks you'll ever meet). Nikki Haven, Eva Loren, and Kate Hawn are all on par with MM, from what I've heard. All of them are based in Columbus. In Cleveland, Chase Cameron is your best bet.  
   
 However, take what I say with a grain of salt, because I'm a provider and therefore can't really give you the same perspective. Start a thread asking for recommendations. The guys will respond.  
   
Posted By: lickalotapuss
Sounds like a plan. Budget isn't a huge deal and I live in Columbus area but will travel.  So do you have anyone you recommend  BadCollegeGirl ?    
     
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Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
Well, the best place to start would probably be asking the guys here to give you some recommendations per your location and budget.    
       
   
Posted By: lickalotapuss
Thanks for all the info. Now I guess since I'm new to this the next step would be researching which  providers would be good candidates for my request. I suppose its unusual to look for a provider to give rather than receive but that's what I'm looking for. My gf loves to do everything else but is very uncomfortable with that so I need to fill that void.  

3!turtle3 524 reads
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17 / 25
Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 744 reads
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18 / 25
Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 806 reads
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19 / 25

...and of course you have to take into account the legality aspect, but an interesting read nonetheless.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 693 reads
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20 / 25
Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 626 reads
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21 / 25

Dr. Telford, at your service.  

Posted By: 3!turtle3
Thank you Dr.!  
 

iliketofarm 642 reads
posted
22 / 25

I would have expected this outcome. The porn star group is an interesting comparison class because (a) they have crazy, acrobatic, athletic sex, (b) no condoms (notwithstanding the recent law), and (c) the porn community seems to be good at keeping particular STIs alive in their population.

But the clincher is knowing the STI rates among the general public. (And aren't STIs how wives find out their husbands are seeing escorts? That's how it was on House.)

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 572 reads
posted
23 / 25

I searched high and low for recent statistics on STI rates among sex workers, but almost everything I found was either focused on irrelevant groups like underage prostitutes in Thailand or only measured HIV statistics. The only statistic I could find was a 3-5% transmission rate among sex workers in the US and their clients, vs. 30-35% amongst teenagers in the US. Another study indicated that prostitutes who use drugs are far more likely than those who don't to have an active infection, but that seemed like a "well no shit" finding due to intravenous drug use. You'd think that there'd be some kind of effort to gather the kind of data that we're hoping to cite, but I'd have to imagine that the difficulty is finding participants.  

In any event, I've never heard of wives finding out that their husbands were seeing sex workers due to transmission of STIs (though I do know someone who transmitted herpes to his wife following an affair with a coworker). Any time I've heard of a guy getting "caught" by his SO in this world, it's been due to one of several reasons: he confessed out of guilt, she found correspondence (texts, emails, phone records, etc.), or he was simply caught in the act. But, again, those are only the stories I've heard first-hand. I'm sure it's happened.  

I'm still hell-bent on finding some kind of research on this stuff. It's now my mission.  
Posted By: iliketofarm
I would have expected this outcome. The porn star group is an interesting comparison class because (a) they have crazy, acrobatic, athletic sex, (b) no condoms (notwithstanding the recent law), and (c) the porn community seems to be good at keeping particular STIs alive in their population.  
   
 But the clincher is knowing the STI rates among the general public. (And aren't STIs how wives find out their husbands are seeing escorts? That's how it was on House.)

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 691 reads
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24 / 25

Posted By: TrulyMsMocha
..... lol *taps mic*.... is this thing on?  :)

earthshined 664 reads
posted
25 / 25

like it. In the sense trhat they are there to bring you pleasure not the other way around.

Too personal? Maybe sometimes too sensitive down there?  

I usually don't even bother trying.

I think most just tolerate it because they have to.(part of the job)

btw, i dont worry about STD with oral any more than kissing.

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