Well, I set up an appointment with a local based provider.
The appointment was set for late morning. Early that morning, I texted her to confirm the appointment, she replied, Yes, we are still meeting at the agreed time. Then, around 45 minutes prior to the appointment, I texted her asking her where I am supposed to go.She gives me the approximate location and tells me to text her when I arrive at that location. I did that, then she tells me, 'No!' "We are not meeting there! I told you we are meeting at the hotel at this location." I replied, "Wait, you told me to go to this other location and now you are telling me something different. Why?" She replies, "If you are not here on time, I will blacklist you!" I told her that I have the text message trail that shows proof that you told me one thing, but switched it around at the last minute. You cannot blacklist me if it's not my fault. She promptly replies that she will be blacklisting me. How do I tell others to watch out for this one so that they won't get trapped into the same kid of situation that I did? What are your thoughts on this?
Did nothing to provoke her.
Read the forum rules...
I'm not allowed to mention names.
You can't post a review because the session never happened. But there is no forum rule that says you can't tell us who it was that acted this way. The forum rules against giving out information that may personally identify someone don't apply as long as you only give us the provider's stage name.
I too am often annoyed by over the top scavenger hunt tactics when meeting someone new. But ... its part of the game. And you've been around long enough to know that.
If a provider really led you around on a wild goose chase, then refused to see you because you were late - and actually blacklisted you for being late ... well ... a lot of us would like to know who that was.
But - I somehow suspect that the reason you don't want to identify the provider in this case is that there may be just a little bit more to this story.
I don't understand? You want to share your experience, and warn others, but you don't want to tell anyone who you are talking about?? Does this make sense to anyone??
Seriously?
I know the rules... take a few moments of your busy time to read up on TER's forum rules.
Also, read up on the rules regarding giving out reviews, too.
So... before you start shooting your mouth off... sit back and breath a bit.
You're basing that statement on what?
The fact that you don't understand TER forum rules?
Go read up on the rules before you make infantile statement like these.
This isn't a place to rant. If you have an experience to share you can post a review. Simple. Happy New Year.
A review is perfect, but many guys don't have the balls to post negative reviews.
Pretty sure you can't post a review about a session that did not happen. That would be like reviewing a restuarant without going inside or eating there. Our reputations are our bread and butter in this business. I think everyone should take caution before throwing ones reputation under the bus. It is common practice for discretion, for a provider to tell a client to go to a location/landmark near the location, then give out the actual location once nearby. That way no shows don't have our location. LE is known to make bogus appointments to find out what hotel or address providers can be found.
I have never been told a approximate location. As long as someone is verified giving the hotel or in call location shouldn't be a problem. I use p411 and have 20 plus Oks So maybe That Is Why. I Had A Situation Awhile Back With A Vegas Girl And She Was not On TER Any longer and I posted about her but didn't mention her name but a few people sent me a PM and I shared it with them that way.
Sorry that you don't agree, but this is the correct forum to rant.
If that was not the case TER management would have removed my original post.
Read Katelyn's reply in regards to giving out a review.
You've been here long enough to know the rules of reviews.
To Katelyn...
Yes, that is precisely why I could not post a review because I did not see her in person.
Again, my post is basically getting the feel of what people thought of this kind of situation and if others have encountered similar issues.
I don't see others being in this situation, so it must have been unique to me, I guess.
I am fully aware of the tactics of LE, but this was not a LE tactic. That was obvious in this lady's behavior.
I am sorry you went through that, but much better for her to flake before you paid than after LOL. Now over the years, I have had maybe a handful of situations where I backed out when they showed up at their designated place. Only for two reasons, either they showed up very late without notice, or when they called ready to see me they were either saying things or making comments referring to specific sex acts etc that I found extremely off that made me question the screening and I declined the appts.