But I will add that I think NQNS is an important aspect of this. With providers, I have lower expectations. We're strangers and I don't expect her to love me.
But with a civilian - she has to be down for the finish. I don't mean just because I like it. I mean because she likes it to. It's about accepting a guy all the way.
I always try to feel out a civilian girl to see how uptight she is. If she thinks ejaculate is "gross" and her ass being played with is "icky", I know we won't have a future. If she thinks sweat (hers and mine) is "ewww", I know we'll have problems. If she thinks sex needs to happen at specific times, within specific parameters, like a fucking clock, we're going to have issues. Who wants to live like this?
It would be like a guy not going down on a girl because he thinks it's gross. Or not kissing your girl after she blows you. Taking me to the finish line and enjoying it is a baseline requirement for me, at this point. It's a litmus test to how good our relationship could be.
But I will add that I think NQNS is an important aspect of this. With providers, I have lower expectations. We're strangers and I don't expect her to love me.
But with a civilian - she has to be down for the finish. I don't mean just because I like it. I mean because she likes it to. It's about accepting a guy all the way.
I always try to feel out a civilian girl to see how uptight she is. If she thinks ejaculate is "gross" and her ass being played with is "icky", I know we won't have a future. If she thinks sweat (hers and mine) is "ewww", I know we'll have problems. If she thinks sex needs to happen at specific times, within specific parameters, like a fucking clock, we're going to have issues. Who wants to live like this?
It would be like a guy not going down on a girl because he thinks it's gross. Or not kissing your girl after she blows you. Taking me to the finish line and enjoying it is a baseline requirement for me, at this point. It's a litmus test to how good our relationship could be.
Amen amen amen! The only problem is (as in my life) when a woman will act as though she loves it and loves everything about it...but only for awhile. After things get serious, then the limits start coming up. Eventually, BJs are a thing of the past with her. This is why I'm on this board and considering seeking professional assistance from some of our lovely ladies.
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