So one of the first girls i began seeing in the area a few years back was perfect and i have been trying to find someone with as much care and attention to detail, but its hard to find

My ideal massage:    The atmosphere, low lights, light music, neutral temperature, subtle scents. The area to be uncluttered, tidy and sanitary. A table is necessary and a dedicated room is a nice touch.  A good oil goes a long way, no body wants to feel or smell baby oil or have hand lotion smeared into them.        
   The massage: This is an often overlooked aspect of the experience haha! Not every provider is going to have the strongest hands for a true deep tissue but ensuring some symmetry in your movements, when switching sides of the table or actions keeping a hand or finger on my body keeps the connection occurring and and a bit of intimacy.  For me i prefer to massage to last about 40 minutes, proper teasing throughout, not to much attention to the boys but keeping engaged. nothing worse than having someone rake your back for 10 minutes ask you to flip and then immediately tug...   after flipping this is where the real arousal should come into play, intensifying the teasing and touching and then culminating...  

If anyone knows of a true massage artist please let me know!!