Guys:

Which do you prefer:  going to the lady's incall or you getting a room and having her come to you.  And, do you prefer her incall to be an apartment or hotel room?

Getting my own hotel room seems what i like best

To my house would be the most convenient for me but it has obvious draw backs, nosy neighbors.
I have already had a few wired things happen at my house one girl left her phone next to the bed one other time i noticed my back door had been unlocked.

Going ti a providers hotel or residance always bring up paranoia wonder if the place is being watched

Best case is incall to her room at a well established hotel. You never know what's waiting you you at her residence or in a cheaper motel.

If I'm out of town ( staying in a hotel) outcall. If I'm home I'll incall.

I have always preferred incall. Less hassle involved plus you don't get stuck with nothing but a empty room if a girl cancels on you or no shows. I also think it is essential to go with incall if you are taking a shot (TOFTT) on a unreivewed girl. Ripoffs are most likely when a girl comes to you as they can leave and not have the problem of getting you to leave which would be the case with an incall ripoff, they have to be pretty balsy to run a ripoff with an incall. Many obvious ripoff ads on the various ad sites often say "outcall only".

I always like to meet someone new for dinner or at least a drink. If I'm comfortable, I invite them back to my house. If there's any doubt, I'll get a hotel room.  (Almost) never go to someone new's incall.

Well if you get a hotel room and she is a no show there is still CL add for 2 giirls from Lincoln Village lol...