It shouldn't matter that much if it's a legit provider... We have to move around alot, especially in an apartment neighbors/stalkers/wives, etc....
and having traffic coming in & out neighbors automatically think drugs or ????? Neighbors are very nosy. I owned a condo that I rented out (this was years ago) & the police forced me to evict a tenant. I let my tenants know I had complaints & to keep whatever was going on inside & be quiet & don't park in anyone's spot (other than that I felt they were within their rights but nosey people can make any kind of statments & once le gets word of it, u gotta comply). So it kinda amazes me that guys really want to go to an apt... now if it's a high end girl, with very low volume it's a much nicer setting.
but if we haven't ever met you & you are just calling out of the blue asking information why would we bring you to where we live? You could be anybody on the phone????
I think hotels are the best it's common for single men to be coming & going dressed business like into or leaving a hotel. & one where u can discreetly park is nice. And if something happens at a hotel, (u probably don't want to get le involved) but u can complain to the front desk, a hotel will turn its head to get business but if they are doing shady stuff (like taking the money & the boyfriend trys to kick u out), the hotel staff will kick them out cuz they don't want the bad publicity.

A couple of regular ladies that I see work out of their apartments and I prefer that but certainly understand the security issues.  I won't go to a RRI or Motel6. The larger the hotel with more regular traffic, the better to blend in

I think that's scary....they don't want to give me any of their information....but at an apt. anything can happen, & it seems the guy would be in more danger cuz he is in their apt....they cud do and say anything.....I prefer to not do outcalls for that same reason, I don't want to be alone with someone at their home & neighbors write down license plates.....
but I'm getting alot of calls lately, they just ask the same questions like they are writing the answers down for someone (and they had that thing that they did in Cleveland ) so I just hate it cuz none of them are making appts. just wasting my time...
Where r u located, what hours, what is your price, r u in an apt. or hotel......(which that info is in my ad, most of it), I asked someone today if he was from that organization monitoring the ads, he said yeah & caught hisself and said he's from an agency, I said goodbye.....

For me, any provider who sees clients at their home is borderline nuts..lol...Now I could make sense, maybe, with certain regulars getting that treatment, but c'mon there are alot of whackos out there, many normal well adjusted people, but also alot of whackos. I would consider almost any provider who regularly saw clients at their residence as a bit off and not someone I would care to see. Relative to the norm in this game, its just not professional and would just put me off seeing her.

I do prefer an incall at a hotel, despite the recent LE activity, the normal target of the busts are the ladies so nothing to worry about there 98% of the time. I think robs and rip offs are a little less likely at a incall hotel (and I suppose a incall home date too) date versus a outcall, outcalls are just way too easy of a time for the rip offs and robs to make a quick escape without a trace.

The only times when hotels can be problematic can be a appointment at 9pm or 10pm or later at hotels in downtown areas. Some downtown Cincy hotels restrict room access to guests only, that can make getting to the room a little dicey, but most girls have their systems, had a date a few months ago where the keycard was left in a secret place on a lower floor that was acceseble.

I plan to offer incalls from my apartment starting next week when I move to a more populated area (too isolated right now).

I mostly want to see regulars or men that I have screened a few days in advance.  I dont need any crazies knowing where I live or some idiot who thinks since he knows where I am that he can just show up anytime he wants to.

I like hotels but it sure does get old sitting in a hotel room all day long.  At least at home, I can get things done that I cant do when I am away.

Well be careful there Naomi, I am sure you can do alot to make certain the clients you see at your residence, others who have had bad experiances might have not been as careful as you will be.

But I would say that the law of percentages would probably be at work with that no matter how careful you are, I would say doing that long enough might result in you having some problems liek the one you mentioned, someone just showing up.

I can imagine staying in a hotel has its drawbacks and auckward moments, especially when it comes to housekeeping, I am sure that is a bot of a tightrope at times, especially in the bible belt. I am sure practices like rotating hotels can be tiresome to, as well as the sitting around.

But the worry about that ends when you leave the hotel.

Weird, what do you think was behind a guy from an agency calling?

I always try to be brief and concise if I make a phone call to just inquire and only do that if the ad doesn't list the rate, incall or outcall, location,etc. Unless you can tell the guy is a mouthbreather who is probably jacking it while he is talking to you then I would say a minute or so on the phone is not uncalled for, especially if the information is not in the ad or on the website, but a laundry list of questions can be a waste of time I can understand.

Especially if you have reviews, the guy should have nothing to wonder about. It is the girls who have no reviews who must understand that prospective clients are in the dark and might need to see how she sounds on the phone. If a girl with no reviews is too pushy about setting something up that minute, and she has an ad that is a bit suspect, it can be a good tell that she is not GFE or even FS.

Funny how the most of the scammers don't even put alot of energy into being nice on the phone to reel one in, that is from reading reviews of subpar to rip off providers.

I am sure with experiance a girl can kinda tell if it is a BS phone call or if it is a guy who actually is interested in getting together.

I prefer a hotel.  I don't like going into someone's home, you never know what's behind door number 2.  I have done it but am very leery of it.  It feels awkward to go into a place I have never been to do what we do and I don't like not knowing what's going on around me.  Who knows how many people are there hiding in other rooms.  Hard for me to enjoy myself.  She would have to be a regular for me to be able to enjoy myself at her place.  At a hotel it's kind of a level playing field, I know what I'm getting into.

Having an incall at a private residence is way too risky. Nearly everyone has at least one busy-body either next door or across the street. If they call the police, over too much traffic, they WILL investigate. Ladies and gentleman, in this business, discretion is paramount.

I did offer an incall at a luxurious gated vacation resort, at one time. However, my incall was NOT my residence and better yet, it was in a vacation resort. Vacation resorts, are the optimal solution. There are new people in and out all the time and everybody is too busy having fun to pay attention to anyone else. I'm assuming, Ohio doesn't have too many vacation resorts though.

Unless I'm able to offer an incall, as mentioned prior, I prefer a 4 star hotel. (3 star minimum) If you offer incall from a hotel, you need to make sure that the elevator is accessible without a room key and that it's a fairly large hotel. I would steer clear of boutique hotels. In addition, companions.....you need to tip your maids. When I say tip, I mean tip them WELL! I tip my maids a minimum of $20 per day.If you tip them well, they will give you extra towels, linen etc. In addition, they won't tell a soul...even if they speculate your a companion!

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