I normally don't make post or participate in many boards, but this has incident has stroke the wrong chord with me. So much so I feel moved to say something.  I scheduled to see Jasmine Rivers on 10/25. The TLDR version is my wife drops me off at any appointments. (We're just an open couple, we know everything the other does. Not knock to anyone who doesn't share their business, that's just what we do.) Jasmine then sees me kiss my wife bye as she doesn't stay for the sessions. This spooked Jasmine while I was standing at the door. She texts me about her concerns, which I responded with the information above. She decides to cancel while I'm standing at the door. Which is her right and accepted her decision with no complaint of course. I understood her point of view and planned on trying to see her again someday soon. The problem I have is she left a negative review that day using language like "set up". That is foul, unfair and language that should only be used with 100 percent certainty that its true. Not a misunderstanding with a client who just needed a learning experience. I now know to ask ahead of time if the provider is comfortable ahead of time with the drop off situation. However, Jasmine decided to review me with such language. So, I thought I would share this with others. Be careful. I will not let Jasmine's experience color the hobby in a negative light.

Providers must always trust their instincts as their safety is of utmost importance.  If a provider feels uneasy about a situation, that intuition often stems from a good reason. It is unusual for a hobbyist to have their spouse drive them to an incall appointment, which can raise red flags surrounding an odd explanation.  Blacklists play a crucial role in protecting providers as unverified excuses from hobbyists can cause unnecessary worry.  

However, if you can provide reliable references from reputable providers who can vouch for you, any negative feedback regarding your highly unconventional chauffeur might be overlooked. If driving is not feasible, consider using a ride-sharing service like Uber or Lyft for your upcoming encounters. The safety and comfort of a provider should always be a priority.  

Don’t let the concerns of others destroy your inner peace. Good luck!

I agree that safety for providers is important and it is odd that a wife drops you off. Not odd to people in your situation, but to providers who aren't used to seeing that.  

That said, I've had nothing but problems with Jasmine. She's terribly unorganized. I have booked her three times, and each of the three times she's cancelled last minute. When we do this, we get charged, or attempted to charge anyway. I understand things come up, the first time was a no sweat by me. But she continued to follow suit. We would book a time convenient to her, she would confirm the day of, then cancel about an hour or two before.  

I wouldn't waste your time with Jasmine anyway.