White list guys if they know then and the guys have left a good review because both had a good time

and they are nice to have but I've never had a provider ask about my TER whitelist. Getting provider oks on my 411 account is more important to me since that is an actual verification site. If you want whitelist I would recommend asking the provider to whitelist you at the same time you are asking her if she wants reviews. Assuming of course you ask them, some ladies ask for reviews and thats when I'll mention whitelist and 411 approval. Problem with that is it can appear that you are offering a good review for a whitelist. I think thats why alot of ladies don't put much stock in a whitelist.

I have only asked one of my ATFs for a whitelist referral, and she has never gotten around to it....

I think it's only fair if we both had a fantastic time.  

....... not every lady is comfortable enough with doing that after just ONE date even if it was an amazing date. I also prefer personally being contacted about a reference and I don't normally feel comfortable giving them more than 6 months-1yr after our last date (WL will show when it was given but not if he's still seeing her or at least keeping in touch).

I wouldn't worry about whitelists if I were you. If you're hoping to be whitelisted because you think that it will count for screening, you're quite wrong. Many girls, myself included, use TER whitelists as tertiary screening at BEST. I for one consider whitelists to be essentially meaningless. I give them to my good clients because I think it's a nice thing to do, but I don't believe I've ever been asked for one.  

Thanks....... I agree...I was asked if I was white listed. Thats all.

after the session.i only ask girls I repeat with(but I don't bother anymore,i have enough and all from top ladies).it helps if it was fun for all and that makes a good review a snap.