Ran into something the other day that I've never had happen before.  Was trying to meet a highly rated lady who shall remain nameless and during the reference checking (she requested age and birth-date as part of her review process) she informed me that I was too old and she wouldn't see me.  I'm aware of any number of ladies who have a minimum age requirement, but this is the first that I've ever run into a maximum.  

TT has this policy but is upfront about it so was not surprised.  
Onward...

Please see "About you"

And, as you can see - no names are necessary.

... so TT will see me, but I am pretty sure she knows I would be too much for her, and she would be sexually overwhelmed, so I doubt she will see me .

Of course others have run into this. Anyone over age 55 has run into this with her. And flat out, it's her choice, just as much as it's your choice in which providers you'd prefer to see.

Folks are certainly entitled to whatever limits/requirements they feel comfortable with.  And I'll be honest and admit that the limit was noted in the lady's ad, I just read past it and assumed, given the way so many around here change their admitted age regularly, that it wouldn't be an issue.  My fault and no hard feelings.  As I said in the original note, I was just surprised as it was the first time I've ever been turned down due to age and was curious whether others had run into that experience.

FYI I was NOT referring to Tobi as the provider in question, as NO names were mentioned. He could have been referring to someone else.

It's probably pretty obvious by now that the OP is referring to me. I state pretty clearly on my ads as well as my website that I only see clients between the ages of 21-55, and I've had that restriction in place for well over a year. It's not something that I arbitrarily came up with just for shits and giggles, it is instead the result of my experience in terms of my personal comfort level. The reason that I have this parameter stated in multiple places is so that these types of "confrontations" can be minimized. One thing I want to be absolutely clear on is that I have NEVER said to anyone "you're too old, I won't see you." I'm not going to use abrasive language like that when turning down a client. Period. What I do say when this subject comes up is simply a regurgitation of what's already outlined in my ads and website (in this case, my exact words were "thank you for your interest, but I don't see anyone over 55").  

Had to read all this and laugh and think to myself of the seen in bad grandpa where his ball are hanging down to his knees! Lmao no chick wants wrinkled old balls in her face. Of course she is entitled to have an age cut off. If at that age you still want some strange bookie isn't that what nursing homes are for?  She probably just doesn't want anyone to stroke out while on top of her. Not only hard to explain but embarrassing. ... What's next? Wheeling in your oxygen tank... lol watching old people fuck? No thanks rather watch paint dry.

I absolutely agree, Alexandra.  As noted in another response, I have no problem with anyone having whatever rules they want or like.  I would not, nor did I, criticize anyone for setting an age limit.  I merely said that I was surprised as this was the first time it had ever happened to me and wondered if others had had a similar experience.  Please note also, that I have never mentioned a name or said anything about who the lady involved was.  If others care to speculate, as some have, that's up to them.  I have not and will not mention a specific name in this regard.  Nor have I mentioned haggling over price.  You may ask anyone that has ever met me, I do not do that. If your price is too high there are always other alternatives.  We're not dickering for a rug in a Persian rug market.  

Glad you noticed that, Ally.  I did not mention a name and I will not mention a name.  I'm beginning to think I should never have raised the issue.  As I've said elsewhere, I wasn't criticizing (if I was I would have mentioned a name) I was surprised as I had never encountered this issue before.

Absolutely your right to do whatever you wish in this regard, Tobi.  

LMFAO!!!

... and why was there a GREAT need to defend yourself?

Doing a web search for providers that take the AARP or golden bucket card for a discount doesn't turn anything up. Better off with a list of nursing homes that have Friday night Wii bowling and karaoke. LMAO

.....not super common but if I saw it someone's website I would not be too surprised either.

Do you feel the NEED to add your two cents to what I'm saying even though I've repeatedly asked you to leave me alone?

You've just launched "The Battle Of The Ages"!

Adorable, experienced, confusion

But... I have been told I have the maturity of a 12 year old. Doesnt that count for anything?

Looks like some pop-up shit storms on a relatively quiet board.  Back to you Jim.......

unny dynamic going on. As hobbest we have age limits also and requirements. Much more stringent age limits. We know more about them than they do us. I bet some providers are afraid to fuck and old bastard thinking he might croak right then and there.  Another thing provider will make who ever the fuck is on the other side of the door feel wanted. Sometimes we are asking for a miracle . After all we do our research we know exactly what they do what they won't do what they look like how many times they've done it as well as scores being scored for this. They don't know what the guy looks like could be ET. So itf an old guy turns her off to the piont she can't give it her best , then why do it? After providers are human also with real feelings and boundaries . The OP should be glad her got turned away and realize he is lashing out in a passive aggressive temper tantrum

I'll have to stir up controversy more often!

Nah.  I've run into LOTS of ladies with minimum age requirements.  21 or 35 seem to be fairly common for whatever reason.  I don't 12 works.  (grin)

Yowzah!

>Totally agrees with deeznuts. I also wish I had ET's glowing finger how cool would that be with your dingus on her puss and a glowing finger in her pooper! Imagine the shadow puppets that would make.Either that or the flying bicycle .

... REPEATEDLY to leave you alone in this thread?  

Define "battle"

You know exactly what I'm referring to. TER doesn't allow posting PMs to the board, otherwise I would.  

Has been fun watching this thread spin widely out of control...
(this board has been too quiet!)

Hey, it was my fault.  I'll freely admit it.  The lady involved did have something in her site and her ad. She was upfront. I just missed it/misunderstood it.  I wasn't griping about the lady.  I was asking how many others have run into upper age limits.  I've seen lots of minimum age limits, but this was the first time I've run into one where I was too old.

Run away.. I've got to... eh eh get away.... Play with my conehead any time!

Ok, this thread has amused me greatly……personally, I don't mind watching old people fuck but then I am a bit of an oddball, lol! 55 seems awfully young and arbitrary to me ( I love older gentleman!) but you are right that girls have the right to set their own guidelines and decide for themselves what they feel comfortable with. I appreciate your understanding and kindness in this matter! I would only say that older gentlemen might want to consider the maturity level of the provider they are seeking to spend time with. If your priority is  a young girl, that is fine….your prerogative, but if you are looking for class, grace, companionship….well…..

I confess that I had to look that one up (not unusual for me with your crazy posts).

Posted By: Tobi Telford

 
   

Posted By: Jayonem

Define "battle"

   
 Narfle the Garthok.

Thanks for doing the research though I thought Narfle the Garthok was some cool sex act that I was unaware of. If it isn't, it should be! Any of the ladies wanna work on that?

Posted By: zguy8

I confess that I had to look that one up (not unusual for me with your crazy posts).  
   
 When I did, it was hilarious (also not unusual with your crazy posts).  
   
 So lets see if I've got this. If I best Joe in a battle of wits - then I narfle you.  
   
 To narfle the garthok (who is a nasty beast) you have to hold him off with only a hook and a small staff.  
   
 If you succeed, you win and your honor is protected.  
   
 If not, you lose and the garthok eats you. Right?  
   
 I've given this careful consideration ... and I'M IN!  
   
 I'll be the Garthok.  
   
 Let's Narfle!  
   
   

Posted By: Tobi Telford

 
     

Posted By: Jayonem

Define "battle"

 
     
  Narfle the Garthok.

LOL, what a way to go though

Don't forget you have to do all of this while singing!. Of course you wouldn't have to do all of this if you have had an offering for the high  master. I happen to have an owners manual for a mercury sable and some chewing gum in the form of a condom. Perhaps that is where the girls found out how to put it on with their mouths! Ya I'm gonna need the chewing gum on my shaft. Classic. Is it sad that I knew what TT was talking about without looking it up? I should get points for that! Of course I guess I just ousted myself on my age hu? Lol  anyway great ending they leave David Spade on another planet where he belongs! As for you guy the high .after says you were next. Let .e know when Elvis gets here.
 

Posted By: zguy8

I confess that I had to look that one up (not unusual for me with your crazy posts).  
   
 When I did, it was hilarious (also not unusual with your crazy posts).  
   
 So lets see if I've got this. If I best Joe in a battle of wits - then I narfle you.  
   
 To narfle the garthok (who is a nasty beast) you have to hold him off with only a hook and a small staff.  
   
 If you succeed, you win and your honor is protected.  
   
 If not, you lose and the garthok eats you. Right?  
   
 I've given this careful consideration ... and I'M IN!  
   
 I'll be the Garthok.  
   
 Let's Narfle!  
   
   

Posted By: Tobi Telford

 
     

Posted By: Jayonem

Define "battle"

 
     
  Narfle the Garthok.

... good job!

... the maturity level of the provider.

I would only say that older gentlemen might want to consider the maturity level of the provider they are seeking to spend time with. If your priority is  a young girl, that is fine….your prerogative, but if you are looking for class, grace, companionship….well…..consider Nancy Regan she has the age and all of the above

Who did I blacklist? You're just making weird shit up now because you're grasping at straws. At least I have the balls to post under my real handle.