Been out the hobby for some years. Relationship is over and I want to play. Since I haven't hobbied in about 4-5 yrs I have no reference and my reviews are old. Contacted a few ladies with no luck. Any advice on getting back in the game? Thanks!!
I would recommend contacting someone that's newbie friendly. They deal with guys that don't have references and should be able to run you through their newbie screening process. Just a thought. Go over to the ad board and search newbie friendly and you should strike gold!😁😁
What is the ad board you are referring to? Where do I go to search the keywords newbie friendly?
.....is pick from those of us who are NUB friendly (not all are) that are entirely legit ( with creds ie website, some reviews, etc) follow the instructions for screening explicitly (without any of the "but back in the day") and upon successful completion of an appointment ask for a reference if necessary and possibly a recommendation to another trusted provider and you are back in the game. Be prepared what screening you had if any 6 years ago is a little tougher now....
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Suzee
join a screening service like P411. That alone won't sway some gals, but it will definitely be a point in your favor.
I'm not sure what all has changed since you've been gone lol BUT just seek ladies that don't care for provider references or "newbie friendly". I don't accept them at all. Also just browse the discussion boards and see what you've missed (whatever that is) lol. Goodluck and happy 4th !!!
I think being honest is the key. Reveal some of your true identity and employment may be required too. If you seem hesitant we might think you are shady and not want to see you. Or just pay to join some verification website....