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Seeking older women - do they exist?sad_smile
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Have never gone to a provider yet, as what I’m interested in is very limiting.  I am 45 years old, but I am only into older women.  I must be the only one as there is a serious lack and a lot of lying about age.

I always scroll through 20-39 and seek anything 40+.  Too bad backpage doesn’t have an age range filter.  I prefer someone 50 and up, although 60 is more my ideal.  What should I do?  Give up?

It seems that many older women lie and I think it’s to their disadvantage.  Saying you’re 40 when you look 55 makes you look like you’ve aged horribly than if you simply said you’re 55.  Plus I find it awkward when she’s “younger”, yet is clearly older than me.

If I contact someone saying they’re 45, is it considered impolite to ask if they are actually older?  Am I the only person who actually prefers and values older women?  I hear that ladies lie because it hurts their rates.  But if you’re the only 50 year old around, wouldn’t your business boom for guys who want older women?  Especially if you’re an attractive and fit woman?

Look at her profile age, then see how long it's been since she got her first review.   Add that amount of time to her profile age, and that will be her minimum age.   Some wags will say to add five years to that as well.   There's some truth to that.

 
There are mature gals out there.   The youngest I see is about 30, and the average is about 45 with a few pushing 60+.  One even just turned 70, and still going strong.   (Anneke)

I am in my early 40s, which is reflected in my TER profile.   I believe that profile dates back to 2004.  When I first started, my profile said I was 26-30, which was accurate at that time.  
Now I did not claim, or bother updating, my profile when I was active from 2004-2009 but did when I returned in 2015.  
By your "trick" people might wrongfully believe I am more than a decade older than I really am lol.  

 
However!  I admit I know more than one provider claiming to be in her 30s who has admitted to me that she's older than I am.... in a few cases, by a LOT.    These ladies typically believe that claiming their real age will hurt their business.  :shrug:  

 
I can only speak for myself: owning my mature years has not hurt my business in the slightest.   I'm just as popular/successful now as I was in my 20s and 30s.  ;-)

TER has this nifty search function to help you find just about anything you're looking for.  

It looks like there are several hundred to choose from across the country. Just put in your location and 50+ in the age category to narrow it down.

There are plenty that are proud of their age and don't try to be something they're not.

Thanks for the response!  Unfortunately, there was one in my area (within 120 miles) and she retired.  They exist, but they are few and far between.

The thing is, many of them have been 36-40 for 15 years.  

 
Yes, they are not only doing their clients a disservice, but themselves as well. I am partial to the much younger women personally, but I am way in the minority here. For every guy like me who will almost never see a woman over 35, much less 40, there are  five guys who refuse to see any woman "under" 40 and these women who are desperately trying to hang onto their youth have no idea how much business they are costing themselves by doing so.

Tell me about it.  Christie Brinkley being 63 and Vanna White being 60 makes them hotter than if they lied saying they were 35.

I saw this one woman who looked quite haggard on an ad (seems to be hitting the drugs hard), but had the audacity to claim she was 45.  It was such a turn off.  Needless to say, she didn’t renew her ad.

and take Mrfisher's advice regarding adding some numbers to the age listed in a provider's profile.

There are some wonderful independent ladies in their 40's and even 50's (and maybe more). Look at the photos and then make a date.

The seven virtues: chastity, temperance, charity, diligence, patience, kindness, and humility.
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Posted By: keystonekid
Re: Patience is a virtue. Use the TER review search function . . .
and take Mrfisher's advice regarding adding some numbers to the age listed in a provider's profile.  
   
 There are some wonderful independent ladies in their 40's and even 50's (and maybe more). Look at the photos and then make a date.
I agree with much of the above (kid and others) but ask about what you are looking for with the age indicator.  Appearance? See the photos.  Personality and temperament? Look for her posts to TER. Read her blogs and ads (and maybe even her twitter, if she has one).  If you could describe your perfect date WITHOUT mentioning age at all, what would we see?  
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I prefer younger hostesses, myself, and I know that many of my 20-25s and 26-30s could very well be north of that!  On the appearance scale, I just want them to claim an age that is believable to ME, regardless of their actual age.  
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Final add: I have seen some pics of Providers claiming to be of an older age and they look fantastic!  50 looking like 30-35!  They are on my list (but I always seem to find another distraction).

You didn’t mention where you are, but it sounds like your in escort Siberia.  

Older providers can be found in Florida, Arizona, Las Vegas and So. CA. Many older providers have moved to these areas, because that’s were the old geezers hobbyist  retire.  

Take a look at the over 60 board, the board is open to all, there are a number of mature providers who post on the board. There’s a mature provider based in Dallas who’s in her late 60’s who’s active on the board.  

Finally, you may just have to travel to meet the type of providers you’re interested in.

I’m in the Indianapolis area.  Seems that I may have to travel to Chicago.  I’ll check out the board.  Thanks.

what many of us grew up with is now at least 10-15 years lower. Meaning, people were considered old when they retired at maybe 60 or 65. Now, many people work into their early 70's, partly because they didn't take the time to develop worthwhile hobbies (not P4P) while younger.

Me, I retired early and I'm enjoying my retirement years. I did manage to have some income sources to continue seeing providers when I can get away.

if you happen to run into a lady that appears older than you wouldn't that be a bonus for you? As Gambler says there are women to stay in the 36-40 age bracket so long it's beyond ridiculous.

More mature ladies are definitely out there so search for ladies over 45 with good reviews here on TER and I'm confidant you'll find your ideal type hopefully sooner than later! As a newbie be VERY careful on BP.

Steph XO

Paint a picture for us but without using age anywhere in the description.
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Appearance: you can check her photos.  

Personality, temperance, demeanor: read her TER posts, follow her blog or twitter, and decide for yourself. Read her reviews to see the remarks of others.  

Performance BCD: read her reviews.  Presumably, you want mature and skilled. Rule out "terrible BJ but she'll learn with more experience."  But some younguns get "BJ with the skill of someone much older. She must have been doing this for a long time."  
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What else is there? WHAT is your perfect date and where does age fit in?

Professionals have to lie about her age to client pretty desperate to get business.I have no updated reviews for security reason.I'm just safe professionals have update reviews.

We do exist. I am not 50 though. Wish you well on your quest sweetie.

Claire 🌺

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