on the lady. Some will only see guys with references. Look for those who are "newbie friendly". These ladies will usually screen you by your employment info- so you'll need to be willing to give up some info so that she will be comfortable enough to see you. You will give her your place of employment and work number and she will call to make sure you really work there. You can also use a verifying service such as Date-Check or Preferred 411, but some will still want your work info to verify.

the  list  of acronyms and about five pages back of this board.  All  your questions will be answered because they're asked every week.  If you have a really specific question just use the "search" function.  If all this leaves any questions unanswered, come back to this board.

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