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bubbleshorse 3 Reviews 450 reads
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Hey, I posted a reply before, but for whatever reason it doesn't show up now.

Anyways, in a nutshell:

Yes, it's happened to me too.  But you have to realize these are not "regular girls."  These are providers and they're often very busy, whether flying from one hotspot to another, or entertaining some billionaire or whatnot.  So they tend to be pretty flakey.

But then so are so-called "regular girls"!!!  ;)  I can't tell you the number of times I've gotten phone #'s from chicks at clubs or whatever only for it to go nowhere.  An attractive woman will get a zillion offers a week.  So it's easy to get lost in the shuffle, even if you're a good-looking guy.

So don't stress it.  On the other hand: don't quit either!  Like I have met so many guys who've been with strippers it's ridiculous.  And I'm not talking about paid action either.  More like a hot date. And that is what I'm assuming you meant?  You wanted to see one of these ladies OUTSIDE of work, right?  

Of course, it helps if you're a celebrity or a billionaire.  I'm curious: Did these girls know how much (or how little) you make?

Hey, at least you had some "incredible sessions" with these gals.  See my previous thread about getting RIPPED OFF and you'll feel like the King in comparison.

I have no luck with agencies where I live (the Bay Area).  If you know of any good ones, I'd love to hear about it!  

Phook9991756 reads

Well, this is the third time this has happened to me and I'm not sure what to think.  

Three girls I have seen over the course of a year.  One girl only books through an assistant and the other two girls were at agencies.  

Indy girl with assistant - This girl has an assistant that is notorious for taking forever to return appointment requests.  In my last session with this girl, we had an amazing time.  At the end, she told me her real name, and gave me her personal phone number and told me to just text her with appt requests.  I did about a week later and never heard back. Sent a follow up...no response.  

The two agency girls (different agencies).  Both incredible sessions. Both offered me their personal phone numbers and told me they'd like me to get in touch with them to meet outside of the agency.  Again, sent texts to them and no response.  

Now, I know these are the right numbers I'm texting because they texted me during the session so I would have their number in my phone.  And in my appointment requests to them, I am always polite and discreet...basically I say "Would love to see you again, if you are interested, I am free on xxx date, does that work for you? Hope you are well"...etc.  

Now, I don't want to be "that guy" that harasses a provider and I don't think I am being that guy.  I sent one text and then a follow up a week later.  Nothing.   I just don't get it...I mean, if they aren't interested in meeting, I would prefer they just tell me that, instead of not responding at all...and I wonder why they aren't interested since they are the ones who offered up their numbers (this is not something i ever asked...they offered it first).  

Just confused...anyone else have a similar experience or any providers can shed some light on why girls might never respond?

Alot of times they will not reply unless they know who is texting them........

Jack_Inhoff424 reads

In my opinion, the best thing about this hobby is that unlike the civvie world, you don't have to be disappointed by unreturned phone calls.  If these women don't want to make money off of you, there are plenty of other women out there who will gladly take your money.  If they don't return your calls, texts etc., don't hound them.  It's not worth it and you'll only look like you're desperate with no self respect.

Phook999450 reads

thanks for the response. Yes, you are right, I should just move on and I guess I will. I don't plan on texting them again. I guess it's just a blow to my ego to be honest. I figured I was "special" enough to have these girls give me their personal contact info and assumed they really liked me. I guess not.  I think the fact they never responded made me want to see them even more. I still feel like I deserved some sort of response - thy gave me their numbers, if they simply replied and said they changed their mind or weren't interested I would be totally cool with that. Just sucks not hearing anything at all.

To make you feel "special" :)  It is your job not to buy into it beyond the moment.  And who knows, they might have really meant it at the moment.  While I understand what you are saying, you need to understand that no response is a response - without risk for them, of getting into an extended dialog.

Plus, agency girls can lose their gig and be blackballed in the industry for seeing agency clients on the outside, not to mention the agency can blacklist you if they found out.

Hey, I posted a reply before, but for whatever reason it doesn't show up now.

Anyways, in a nutshell:

Yes, it's happened to me too.  But you have to realize these are not "regular girls."  These are providers and they're often very busy, whether flying from one hotspot to another, or entertaining some billionaire or whatnot.  So they tend to be pretty flakey.

But then so are so-called "regular girls"!!!  ;)  I can't tell you the number of times I've gotten phone #'s from chicks at clubs or whatever only for it to go nowhere.  An attractive woman will get a zillion offers a week.  So it's easy to get lost in the shuffle, even if you're a good-looking guy.

So don't stress it.  On the other hand: don't quit either!  Like I have met so many guys who've been with strippers it's ridiculous.  And I'm not talking about paid action either.  More like a hot date. And that is what I'm assuming you meant?  You wanted to see one of these ladies OUTSIDE of work, right?  

Of course, it helps if you're a celebrity or a billionaire.  I'm curious: Did these girls know how much (or how little) you make?

Hey, at least you had some "incredible sessions" with these gals.  See my previous thread about getting RIPPED OFF and you'll feel like the King in comparison.

I have no luck with agencies where I live (the Bay Area).  If you know of any good ones, I'd love to hear about it!  

So she might save your number.  
Other than that...  go though the agency.  Agencies tend to be annoyed with gals bypassing them after the agency gets the client in the first place.

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