I’m on the other side of the fence but a couple clients have shared this practice (*in confidence*) with me....……

One such gentleman did it before a double session with my ATL doubles partner and myself and although he was still able to have a couple cups of coffee he was actually sore when he left.

Another chose to indulge prior to our first meeting and he later confessed it seemed to dull the excitement of the first explosive rush upon walking into my entertainment playpen...…(*he now has no desire since he knows additional cups are always welcome*)

….and of course the obvious… don’t ever have all your fun before a planned encounter if you are uncertain of your ability to revive all working parts

You are the best judge of what will enhance your encounter and make the most of your participation in the hobby...... (thanks for sharing)

Happy Hobbying  Know your provider (*and her reputation*)  kisses..... ~Tori

You seem to equate an enhanced experience with the quantity of time involved in reaching release but you don't mention if the pleasure quality is diminished when you take care of business prior to a session.  Check out the thread a bit below about long screw sessions.  Interesting POV's from both gents and ladies.

Speaking for myself, my first pops are intense. Real intense!  I'd much rather enjoy those toe-curling times with a lady then by myself.  

Again I defer to Tori's main points.  If you know your body and recovery traits then no harm done.  But then again if the lady offers multiple rounds then why would you play alone?

I did this when I was a teenager and in my early 20's.  Now (50's), it's abstaining for a few days before a date to get the "big one".

you need to put trust in your provider - let her play with you and bring you to the brink several times if that is what you want.  I have one steady provider I see once a month for that very reason, over time she has developed a keen sense of what I like and drives me absolutly nuts in every session, which I love dearly.  I tend to stress the quality vs quantity most of the time and to me one great big O beats a couple of ok ones... just my choice.
Try to get away from looking at this as a competition... yeah, we were all brought up to be the best at everything, but sometimes that puts so much pressure on us that we never enjoy the game.   How long you last is a moot point... what good is all of the $$$ you put out for a session if you cannot actually enjoy the darned thing?
One thing I HAVE done is seek a good Tantric provider - it has enabled me to get in touch with myself and enjoy the fruits of sex more and more.
Often, the better in touch with self that you are, the better the experience for both partners when you start dancing.

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