I have started checking reviews on here and searching ads on CityVibe and Backpage for my first girl to meet.  I have found several I want to meet on those sites and have started communication via email.  Most I haven't seen reviewed on here so it makes me suspicious.  They get back to me and ask me to join their website ([email protected]) for $1 OR send me pics and say they are very new at it.  When asked, they claim they don't want to be reviewed and are trying to keep it private.  I have a pretty good bullshit detector and it seems like a scam.  I don't want my first adventure or two to end up with LE involved.  Can I get some advice on these types of responses?