i'm in my mid 20s and have never had sex let alone met with a provider.  i was always shy until i decided to change that after college.  i'm extremely outgoing now, most of my friends assume i've been with lots of girls because of it, but i haven't mastered the art of figuring out women yet.  getting a lot better, but still a work in progress!  I decided to see a provider to see what this sex stuff and all its hype is about in the meantime :P

I did A LOT of reading on these boards.  LOTS.  I went with a provider with tons of good reviews.   I sent her an email with my info before going to bead and boom, the next morning everything was set.  Nice and easy!

The girl was very nice, talkative and made me feel like I was just hanging out with a friend.  We spent around half the time just chatting and the other half doing other stuff.  My performance was pretty bad though!  I let her get me off the first time with bbbj, then I had a hard time keeping it up for the duration of the 2nd round for regular sex. Just need more experience I guess.  I think she forgot that I emailed her I was a virgin because she asked me my favorite position.  Plus at the end we were chatting about life and she asked me if I was married. o.O

I dont think im going to turn this into a hobby because im still very young.  I think its time for some civvie girls now that I got a bit more of a confidence boost.  I did have fun, learned a few things and met a cool person during my brief foray into hobbying.  After it all I dont see why sex was a big deal.

Often, a person's first experience is not all that grand. Give it time, and give it a chance.

Without a doubt.  I still had a great time, but I know I have much to learn still.  With practice!

In the end - best use of a vacation day ever :P

You have made the right decision for you at this time in your life. Try the civvy world, but use prudence. One bit of advice, don't rush to fall in love. You will certainly find that a civvy who rings your bells this year may get old as other women you like appear in your sights. Seek to understand what you want to get from sex.

At your age give the civie world a try. I wouldn't mention to anyone about your hobby experience, and remember to use protection in the civie world. Condoms make a big difference when it comes to performance so find one you like and performs well for you and your partner.
On line sites like condomdepot have wide variety. good luck!

I too am in my 20's.. I have a steady Gf who I have sex with and I was curious and had my first provider a few months just to try it for a 1 time thing.. I had 3 more since then!! For me, its fulfilling a need that is not met. My gf is young, cute, and great, but does not do DT, Greek, CIM, or NQNS. So when i go out to seek providers, I seek for those specific needs to be fulfilled. It would cost about the same to go out, find another girl, take her out on a dinner date, and then sex... So it just save me time.

While it is OK to hobby as a fall-back when you just have to get laid, at your age you are still viable as a civvie, and that should be where you are aiming.  If marriage and family are your ultimate goals, you will not find that in the hobby.

I hear ya!  I am tempted to go back sometime but I know it can drain the wallet very quickly at this age.

Right now I am living in a crappy with not many people.  I am moving soon though to an active city so I'm going to try and be more active pursuing women in life for the first time ever.  The hobby may be a nice fallback right now, but I feel as though I need to finally push myself to do things on my own.  I've been out with a few girls in the past year but I normally screw something up.  I am getting a lot better though.

You are right about this being cheaper then actually trying to wine and dine a girl and hope you get laid at the end, haha.