How safe is it to contact a TER provider? could she be undercover and what can i do or say to eliminate any issues? I know there's no 100% guarantee, however, i'm just being cautiuos. Thanks guys.

Honest, I'm not attacking.  This topic has been covered a bunch here.  If you haven't seen that, then you've likely missed a lot of important things that will increase your chances of success.  She's most likely safe if she's been reviewed by members that have multiple reviews.  To read all of the review, and see who they've played with, you need to sign up for VIP.

Watch, learn & have fun...good luck