I'm looking for an in-call experience at my place but it seems asking for a deposit is becoming popular. Anyone know of a way to send a deposit that I can cancel if they turn pot to be a scam and don't show up???

I doubt whether what you describe even exists. It seems to defeat the entire purpose of a deposit.

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Just to maybe avoid confusion when you do reach out to a lady, incall means you go to her. Outcall means she comes to you. You saying “incall experience at my place” doesn’t really make sense in the parlance of our times.  

 
On the deposit, yeah I don’t know how that would work. Never heard of that. I don’t know if there’s a way to send money to someone and be able to take it back. Actually, I think I remember reading that one of those payment apps had a feature that could be used that way, so all the providers who are aware of that won’t use that app. I don’t remember which app and I’m not even totally sure I’ve got that right. lol  

 
Point is, if there even is a way to send money to somebody and be able to retrieve it, providers aren’t going to accept that method because too many clients would mess with their time & money. That’s why they’re asking for a deposit to begin with.  

 
Just be very careful who you send a deposit to. Do a lot of research.

You host —> provider comes to you = outcall  
They host —> you go to provider = incall  

Essentially you’re asking how you can cancel/reverse payment. Sorry but I’m not going to help with that.. opens the door for clients to abuse it and steal from providers after receiving service (not implying you’d do that, I’m just saying).  

Since you’re nervous about scammers why not just book someone who doesn’t require a deposit, or a reputable provider with a social media presence or reviews? Deposits are becoming popular for a reason. They also need to know YOU will show up. Do a little research before sending anything. Read the ad or website, make sure you understand all policies, and trust your gut.

When it's an escrow account?