I am a povider on TER with no reviews because I am new. I posted an ad, and a guy requested to see me for an outcall. We arranged the date and I can honestly say everything went well, other than when he wanted to meet me near his house but not at his house. By this being my first time meeting a hobbyist from TER, that threw me off. So I told him I was in a different car than I was actually in when we met, simply because I wanted to scope out the area for LE. So everything was good, he wasn't LE and we continued the date. So one we did the date I asked for a condom, he then stated "I can't cum with a condom". I looked at him then put it on anyway. He came in less than 10 mins. I thought pretty quick for a guy that can't "cum with a condom". I looked at the reviews he left TS women and regular women and I've read that 1-2 women and TS he's seen used protection with him, out of the other 40 or more that didn't. But that didn't bother me because I knew I would use it. Anyway I said all this to ask if you guys think he didn't leave a review b/c I didn't off him "unprotected services"? Because like I said the date went fine to me. Even if he would've left a bad review, I feel like he could've said something.

...that he didn't leave you a review. Some guys won't see providers associated with guys that don't use or ask not to use protection and vice versa.

Of course I had a condom but it was in my purse in his living room. I put it down when he made me a drink, after we drank and talked for a while we went straight to his bedroom. Once we were in the mood and undressed I figure why not ask him while we're right here, instead of me getting up and walking all the way to the living room to get what he might already have(which he did have) I figured that would throw off the vibe. If he didn't have a condom I wouldn't have had a choice but to get up and get the one I had. I thought I was making things easier.

The guy probably wanted a bbbj and being that she has no reviews he did not know her menu. She does nothing BB. Here's her last thread on this board.

I sure hope you had more than one.

Most everything you did was right on target.  Keeping your supplies with you will be something you adjust but IN calls are more common where you'll have everything at hand.  A lot of gals prefer to bring & use condoms they supply.  You certainly waill want to have more than 1 condom...  what if one is defective & needs to be replaced mid-session?  

but I didn't remember who started or contributed to it.

Yup, and I'm proud to say I DO NOT offer anything BB and I received a lot of service without doing it with no problem. So it's really not necessary, providers have no reason to do that other than being thirsty for money. I would consider myself GFE because I am passionate with my clients and I kiss them, we just use protection how a responsible gf/bf would but not full GFE you guys are looking for "married couple experience". A lot of guys that have common sense wouldn't either. It's not worth the risk for "some money" sorry I plan to live a normal life one day, I can't do that with an STD that don't go away.

No matter if I had 1 or 10 I still had them, that's beyond my point here. I could care less about that part.

I am aware that STD's can be transmitted through kissing. Which is why I don't provide DFK and barely LFK. I'm not going to sit here and act like I've never seen any of my clients unprotected. Of course I have, but we didn't make that arrangement before we met, we agreed on regular service. It happened gradually over time only with regulars that I've been seeing for a while. How'd you think I kept my best regular around for 2 years. So I'm not saying everyone is perfect or I am. But I do think it's kind of sick to see every hobbyist or provider giving unprotected services before they even meet in person (if the price is right)or got to even know them a little bit. It's ridiculous to see some hobbyist review about 40 girls by the time you get to the 25th one he then seen them all unprotected, that's not cool.

But I will say emphatically, if you advertise as GFE and then refuse to DFK or BBBJ, you are going to get a LOT of pushback and some very poor reviews.

I agree with you totally, but the thing is I don't have any reviews. In order to have a profile made you must have reviews at least 2 I think. That's what I'm working on now, but when I post on the ad board in my region I don't advertise GFE at all. If someone happens to ask, I'll say yes I offer GFE everything covered. Some are with it some aren't.

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Once it is up, you can & should review it & use the "Report a problem" link to get any mistakes corrected.   You can also link your review to your membership (until you have reviews, all TER memberships look the same) which gets you free limited VIP.

I learned pretty quickly that it was in my best interest to try to provide my client with the very best time possible. There's so much competition and with reviews and everything, The details of the kind of session we provide are common knowledge.   It is a good idea to have plenty of condoms. That way we can go back-and-forth between activities and not be limited to one round with a condom. Plus something good happened to that condom, although condoms breaking is extremely rare.

I consulted with doctors and did my research online before I ever did anything that exchange bodily fluid's.

see this link...

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of a timely review but many guys will make notes in a Word doc and then copy the notes over for the details.

I might think a proviider gives me a GFE experience because I feel like she's my GF...  others have a list of expected services.  This is where TER & reviews come in.  A gal might state in her ad that everything is safe or something similar...  that means fully covered.  

Your post really cracked me up!  LMAO