Ok, I have a question about services. I have read reviews about providers I've recently seen and it seems that YMMV on services you get..for example, one review says he got a BBBJ and another says he didn't. Is this based on how much a provider likes you? Or how she perceives how clean you are? It doesn't seem to matter if it was the first time with her or not, so my assumption is that it's based on if she likes you enough to go the extra mile. I also understand that we all have good and bad days, but I'm confused on the discrepancies, if a provider would give a client "A" a BBBJ, why would she not give all clients a BBBJ, unless she really doesn't like you , then I would rather not go back. Any insight would be appreciated, unless this is a stupid ass question, then tell me that too.

Sometimes a client isn't super clean and even though her profile or another reviewer states bbbj, the lady in question may decide to go cbj.
Also a lady whose profile states cbj might click with a client and decide to offer bbbj. You just never know the reason, don't forget we're dealing with women here.  No offense ladies.

Yea, I'm assuming that if everything is equal in the beginning, then she just didn't click with you. Ok, thanks.

As a provider I can say the only reason that would happen is because of hygiene. For me, it has nothing to do with how much I like you...or not, it is ALL about cleanliness in that area.

is a funny thing..I have one review where it says cbj the rest clearly state bbj.... I actually did "like" the gent but I decided to cover him in that case in total 3 cases to date I recall only one reviewed me at all of those 3 ... so here is an honest list of things that would keep me from a bbj and push me to the cbj ..

1 : The odor in the region is off.This could be caused by not being TOTALLY clean front AND BACK , or being on Meds yup .Sometimes some meds make it taste and smell god Awful.

2: they may actually request cbj and review it as cbj but not mention the request was theirs.

3: The man has a shmagigy on his parts
yes that is a word I made it up but I think we all know what that is

4: I have had recent dental work and am afraid I may need to protect myself more than usual.

5: I DO NOT LIKE HIM LOL I am totally joking with this one as that has never been the reason ever lol Hoping this helps,Kendall

There's a lot of reasons YMMV.  As for CBJ v BBBJ, yes it may be a hygiene issue, maybe the gent requested it, maybe there was something ON his penis that made the provider think twice about what she was doing.  Maybe she had a cold sore and took the appropriate measures to protect her client.

The other thing I'd like to point out is that not all reviews are legit.  Some are fake, and they can be hard to get taken down.  And sometimes I think clients who hobby frquently review a lady and get confused... pairing the wrong review with the wrong lady.

I think offering membership based on reviews causes some of the problems but that's a story for a different post.

I have been with a provider that would only do CBJ on the first visit but was willing to do BBBJ on the second, allow DATY on the third, etc...its sort of a frequent customer program I guess.

So, in that case it isn't arbitrary at all, it marketing.  While I originally thought it was ludicrous at first the more I thought about it the more I realize that it contributed significantly to my desire to return for repeat appearances...that is until there was nothing new to "earn"!!!

I've had bbbjtccim from a certain lady.  If I want to end with that fine.  If I want that to be a warm up, with penitration to follow, she might apply the condom with her mouth (a fav of mine) or apply it, go back to sucking to stiffen more before climbing on board (CG, another fav of mine).  
It might also depend on her mood or your hygiene...  or the alignment of the stars...  or the last fucker who did CIM after promising a warning.
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You have to also consider, spots, marks, and things that go bump in the night. I had a lady once that kept examining me over and over again and I was like WTF is there a problem here. And she was like "I just like to be real careful" So I said is everything OK and she was like I guess. This business is not for everybody, but everyone has to be comfortable and feel safe.

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Thanks for all the responses. I always make sure that I have fresh breath and am shower fresh and shaven down there. I just used the BJ as an example, there are other things that may be different, but like was said reviews may not be true or she is just not comfortable with me. Anyhoo, thanks again guys and ladies.

I don't think this was mentioned, but I know of at least one provider who started out doing CBJ, went to BBBJ for a while (months), went back to CBJ, took a hiatus, and is now back doing BBBJ.  Could it be the economy?

See a provider who's reviews all share a common thread. The whole point of referencing reviews is to enjoy and get what your paying for. Keep in mind its not impossible that a provider might have written a review herself, to entice you to see her. check that her reviews are written by members that have written for other providers too. Isabel #99353

It's not a stupid question.....most state I bbbj but I don't to everyone, some prefer them and those just happen to be the ones that don't review, reading my reviews lol you'd think I had a specialty in only one thing if you didn't actually check my site but back on topic whether she does something to one and not to the other doesn't mean she "didn't like you", cbj some ask for it and sometimes by my discretion I cover them.