Long story short, I've been out of the hobby for nine-years until waiting for that magic alignment of the planets to occur at such a time as I could have alone time with my SO got too frustrating and too hard to accomplish.
I have met a couple (few?) absolutely lovely companions through this site. I love talking to them, I love playing with them, I wouldn't mind hanging out with them.
Question is, if you want to hang out with a companion on an extended trip (1-3 days) and she does not offer a rate explicitely for such time, how would one go about asking without "putting her on the spot." Obviously, the entertainment level of someone who felt cornered into something isn't nearly as good as if they honestly agree to it. Likewise, I am perfectly happy abstaining from a trip, if it's infeasible.
meetings with prior. There is rally a lot to discuss. You'll need to do some searches on the boards here to get all the twists. If this is a business trip, she could have tme to herself while you are in meetings. It is not generally 24 hour play time. You need an agreement on how much sleep you each require. She should have the right to check in with a safe person daily... & privately. If there is sight seeing, vacationing, shopping, theater, movie, dining... the activities & interests must mesh. You would pick up all expenses, of course.
I would say it is more rare because of the cost... but it does happen. skb
You have no reason to be apprehensive about asking a lady whether she might be agreeable to this. I ofter longer term dates and VIP arrangements with gentlemen I get along with particularly well, and do so because someone asked me once. I can guarantee she would not be offended. But the other replies were also good to note: make sure you two are comfortable with one another and have spent a little time together before you ask.
Ye gads, Ms. Rae, I would hardly want to spend an evening or a weekend with someone I had not seen on multiple occassions for extended (longer than an hour) period!
Thank you for the feedback, however. I was unsure if it was SOP (standard operating proceedure) to list only unit rates a companion was willing to sell her time for. ie, if an hourly rate is posted, she only sells her time by the hour, or if a 4 hour rate is listed as well, then it's only hourly or a 4 hour discount, or what not.
It appears, longer times may not be listed because she may take it on a case by case basis depending on her situation for that specific time and her repoire with the client. As opposed to women who advertise long peroids of time that may not have such concerns?
Yes, I think you are likely correct. And I didn't mean to imply that you wanted to spend and extended period of time with someone you didn't know at all...but lately it seems more and more necessary to include tidbits that you would think people would otherwise glean for themselves. Glad to hear that wasn't the case with you.
Yes, I am quite sure there are plenty of hobbiests who get wild fantasies in their heads, contact a companion and find out they do not get along with her, but booked an extended session and are stuck with it. I feel no pitty for them.
To be honest, on first meetings, I tend to go with a 90 minute or two hour session just so we have plenty of time to talk and get to know each other. Then again, I am not in it for a one time meeting and never to be seen again, I like the personal touch and that can only be attained once the girl has enough time to get to know me more, and that requires time.
However, I may have found one or two that I "click" with, but neither post rates for overnights or weekends. I just did not want to walk in, stick my foot in my mouth and sour a relatively decent, working, relationship with naivetté.
Thank you for your replies. It will be some time yet before I feel comfortable enough to even broach the subject, but at least now I know that I will broach the subject instead of remaining silent and burying my desire.
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