Only you can decide how much information you are willing to give up to see someone. In general if you are talking about a reputable lady, you are safe giving up your real information. If you do that, to the first couple of gals you see, ask them to give you an ok on p411, and to be a future reference for you. After seeing a couple of gals like that and getting two references or p411 oks, it will be a lot easier to see future ladies without giving up your real info. Most, (but not all, as every lady is different in how she screens or what she asks for) ladies will ask for two references or two oks etc.

...must give me your name as it appears on your drivers license, and yes, I do verify employment.  This is for my safety, as well as yours.  Yes, I ask for id.  References are not nearly as important to me, as your place of employment.

 I work in the private sector, and cannot risk a conflict of interest, that might do me, or my/your firm harm in the future.  It is a two way street.

 It is all about comfort.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

I refuse to give any provider my work info, its just too unnecessary and uncomfortable.
I would share my occupation but in no way want calls made just to check you out.
Name is another issue but once you get settled in you can use an alias and they shouldn't care.

My real first name but never gave out work info or my last name. For me the girls just check my references by name and phone number. I do wish I had got a hobby phone when I started this but did not so not going to worry about it now plus I'm single so it's not much of a problem.

And many providers are on P411, and use it as a primary source of verification/screening.