Let me know what you think...

I saw a client over a month ago @ his home & unfortunately I had to leave b/c he had been drinking excessively. About two weeks ago he clld again & I respectfully declined explaining why.  Glad I did b/c this guy BLEW UP my ph leaving over 30 messages on my vm!!! (I didn't even know my vm would hld so many..lol) Talking abt how he just wanted to see me, he's sorry, etc.

Now over the past wk or so I've been getting calls from an Unkwn Num & decided to answer possibly thinking the person just doesn't realize they are calling w/a block # & I was going to ask that they cb w/# unblocked.  Well it was a female's voice on the other end & she starts the conversation by acting like I'm someone she knows from school.  I already knew from the moment I heard her voice that some female has found her man's ph & going through his calls.  So in a way I was prepared for the bullshit so she continued w/the "you don't know who this is" game; all the while I did ask her twice to cut the game & tell me why she's really calling.  So she pretended to get mad @ me b/c "I don't know who she is" & ended the call.

Now just yesterday, a block call came again & yes it was her!  I just simply told her straight out nicely as I could to pls not play on my ph & to just ask what it is she wanted to know.  I had no intentions on providing info on any of my encounters, but I wanted her to @ least be a woman & say what the fuck it is you keep calling me for!  This time she says she just wanted to schedule an appt for "Jo".  Well I guess I misunderstood the name & she says "No, for D---"(name starts w/D but don't wanna say name for privacy of course). And I've been in the business for over 10yrs & never once have I booked appt thru females.  So finally again I stopped her, asked what her "real" purpose was & to just stop calling b/c she's wasting her time.  I knew it was the drunk client's wife calling & she confirmed when she told me the name of who she was "setting an appt for".

Believe it or not, this has not ever happen to me & I feel as though by speaking with her I just endulged the harrassment more.  I have come to the conclusion to just let her call & I just won't answer any more "unknowns" no matter what.  If they want me they will leave a message.  As far as this individual, I feel a little sad for her b/c u have nothing better to do during the day but wait to call me knowing what you husband has done!?

Do you think this halfa will go away?

I believe he will go away eventually, do you know anyone who specializes in breaking kneecaps?  lol
I hate jerks like this, it spoils the experience for the providers and hobbiest alike.

The sooner you stop indulging her by joining in her little cat and mouse game the sooner she will go away.  Just hang up.

Exactly...that's what I've planned to do

Hopefully you learned something from this incident too to avoid something like this in the future. I agree with the others, they should fade away if ignored. Changing your phone number will be a pain in the ass, not to mention your other clients not being able to find you. Goodluck.

Even if you think you are not giving her info, anything she learns is something she does know...  & just makes her want to know more (which is self destructive).

I think you should not talk to her.  Do not answer.  Many do not normally accept blocked calls.  If you do & you discover it's her say "I'm sorry you must have the wrong number."  

If you feel you must talk to her, say "I don't know any Mr D.  Sorry I can't help."  Hang up.  

IF she keeps at it, you have a right to be rude.  
Frankly I'd put "Use unblocked numbers" in your ad.  Stop answering.  or  Let it go to voice mail or Hang up (without a word) as soon as you recognize the voice or any F/M voice.  

Best wishes,
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Thanks for all whom provided input.  I have decided not to answer any more blocked calls & I'm feeling this will indeed go away.  Thanks.

by engaging her in any conversation whatsoever you are only exacerbating the situation.

You have reached the right conclusion, if she can't reach you, you can't be interrogated.

If it is something legit, they will leave a voice mail.  If not, I don't need to talk to them and vice versa.