I became a vip on TER about four months ago, I was just reading reviews and my regional board to get a feel for things like everyone says do. I also began to add some ladies to my favs list, the ones I thought I might want to visit then I realized that a couple didnt show on my list anymore. I understand that sometimes that people sometimes get d-listed... so my question is not why but is it alright to ask about that lady on the d-board? Where is she now if her review are not showing up anymore?

I'm not sure asking about one qualifies. Moderators usually give a fair amount of latitude on this policy. They won't slap you too badly unless they suspect your "question" is really a shill post for the provider. Proceed with caution. Somebody who knows might well PM you with the info you want.

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Thanks for the advice AllIN. I do have plenty more on my favs list to try and see.

Maybe some more experienced members will know...  If a provider asks for her reviews to be taken down for a time (for personal reasons like BF, LE, child custody, etc) do they disappear from Favs too?
I know if a provider is involuntarily delisted, further discussion is forbidden on TER.  I don't know of anyway to know the status unless you post on the local board.
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such as "has anyone seen so-so recently"?

You don't need to mention that so-so has been delisted.

depending on the moderator, I have seen posters moderated for discussing "delisted providers". I am not saying it will happen or even that it is likely, but it could and has happened in the past.

I am also not saying it is right. I think it is terribly unfair, but it has happened.

why would you care what happened to someone you'd never seen?