First I want to thank all of you who have welcomed me into your community.
I have noticed several Hobbyist in chat seem to charge right after the providers and inquire about things that are already listed on their sites. I am by no means a veteran at this hobby, old I am, but not a veteran. However, I would ask my fellow hobbyist to at least take the time to actually read a provider's site that you might be interested in. Asking them constantly if they travel to your area is one question that always comes up. That is usually on their site if they do. A wealth of knowledge is usually there. I search for the intangible little signs and notes. What scents they enjoy, music, etc. I also ask the providers who grace us with their visits to TER chat directly about those things if it is not listed. I enjoy being able to tease a provider with a special gift I have found she enjoys.
  I have been teased about taking notes in some of the chat sessions, haha. Seems silly, but I do make lots of mental notes when provider's make comments. I enjoy the chat here on TER. It has allowed me to get an insight into some of the providers that have peaked my interest. I can honestly say that I have yet to meet a provider in chat that wasn't gracious with spending time with us there. Some of the providers truly make us feel special. Ladies, we truly enjoy your presence there.The majority of the gents that frequent chat are some great individuals and I thank them for accepting me into their community. Some have become friends, at least email friends.  Thank you again to all of you.
Hoss