I am fairly new to the hobby (one rendezvous under my belt so far).
I recently reached out to a well-reviewed provider in my area, showing some interest in her and asking her for more pics. Her profile shows only a single rear-end swimsuit shot that was mostly swimsuit. Not really much to go on.
She responded (promptly) to my email saying that she didn't have any other pics, but offered to talk to me on the phone.
She's well reviewed on the boards, but I don't like committing to something sight-unseen. What to do in this situation?
Thanks in advance.
All providers do not have a willingness to produce descriptive photographs and some are exceedingly private.
Their regular clientele and those who ARE willing to see her sight unseen sustain her.
It is not appropriate to continue to press when clearly, she doesn't care about securing your interest by producing more pictures.
Either take the leap or don't- but to proceed after she has said no is probably futile and a waste of energy.
That and comments from her clients should give you some idea of what to expect.
You have to decide for yourself how big a deal looks are. If they are a big deal, then by all means, find someone with plenty of photos.
Different strokes for different folks basically.
besides, there are too many great girls with HOT pics. Newbies can't afford to leave ANYTHING to chance, or someone ELSE'S word. Move on.
If she has emailed you and said no more pic then you may have a few choices.
1. If she won't send you any other pic's then you have to move on or take a risk of being disappointed with her looks.
2. You might see if she would meet for coffee and then go from there. I've heard of this done a few times.
3. Like some others said, you might read her reviews (you said she was well reviewed) and go by the other guys judgement on looks (but this is really taking a chance as no two people judge the same on looks!!).
well-reviewed provider, she's gotta have more pics....if you ask for them and she doesn't have any, then move on to the next one.....there's plenty of providers with face pics, even if they are blurred out a little....
I did luck out with a lady with no picts... once. But I've learned to be suspicious of any that show only a rear view or one great photo... Too often, Bait & Switch or scam.
Erotic is nice. I don't need explicit photos & I don't need to see her face. But I require photos of her from different angles, enough so I know they're not pirated & I have an idea what to expect. Sure, I expect she'll use her most flattering shots.
These days I stick to those with a web-site, 6 good picts, well reviewed here on TER. Yes, I do check them. I've not been disappointed since I changed my plan.
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Indeed I agree. How important is the looks factor? I don't show my face because I have a very real life that could be easily exposed. I take camera phone pics because I want you to see what you're getting in real life.
The best shots of me? Nope. Most flattering? Nope. Can a pro make me look great with some phototshop. Hell yes!
However, I am one mans 9 and another ones 7 in looks.
But if what you're really looking for is the service then I would read, read, and READ about the consistant performance. Even the she looks great or better in person. again, she can be a 10 to you and a 4 to another.
You can move on to other well-reviewed providers with tons of pics or weigh the balance of her looks based on what people have written.
It's always a crapshoot. Pics or not.
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Good luck!
Indeed, looks is only part of the equation. A few decent photos are more accurate than a numerical score. Decent amature photos are fine with me. I want a woman who is "attractive"... but that leaves lots of room for individuality.
Performance is what counts in the end.
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If you have a VIP then you could PM the people who reviewed her for a more descriptive opinion.
to make an intelligent buying decision, don't you look elsewhere? No difference here; if you don't feel comfortable choosing this lady, move on.