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perfectstorm 19 Reviews 437 reads
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As you found out, most P411 ladies are ok with just the P411 info, and they usually specify what level of P411 verification they accept (basic, basic +2 etc.), but there are certainly some that want more info.
It is a provider's prerogative to ask for as much or as little screening info as she wishes.  It is a client's option to give out as much or as little as he feels comfortable doing. If the lady wants more than you are willing to give, then pass on her and see someone else.

dualthought1698 reads

So far I have always used P411's OK system to go through screening. However, this one provider wanted to get more information than just P411.

I thought providers can directly contact providers who had given me P411 OKs. But looks like that isn't the case?

Honestly, I won't going to see this provider since it looks like I won't pass her screening anyhow.

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JustGopherIt483 reads

Some are OK with P411 only.  Some ask for P411 + a certain number of OK's.  I believe some ask for more specific information than that.

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perfectstorm438 reads

As you found out, most P411 ladies are ok with just the P411 info, and they usually specify what level of P411 verification they accept (basic, basic +2 etc.), but there are certainly some that want more info.
It is a provider's prerogative to ask for as much or as little screening info as she wishes.  It is a client's option to give out as much or as little as he feels comfortable doing. If the lady wants more than you are willing to give, then pass on her and see someone else.

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aces8402 reads

Providers can supply more info to these companies about you than just a thumbs up or down.

With the movement of ending prostitution via stopping men and other reason I'm against using these data bases for both provider and client.  I know it seems so easy, but bottom line provider to provider is safer for both.

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Businesses435 reads

It will say on her p411 under "Willing to see"
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Basic Plus 1, 2, 3, 4 (the number represents the number of references needed)
Anyone - With References

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dchornplaya339 reads

What is the difference between Basic + and Anyone With References?  Does Anyone With References mean the provider is willing to accept references outside of P411?

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London Rayne444 reads

as a legit or responsible reference...I know I don't. If the gal giving the ref does not have a personal website and TER reviews ( don't much give a fk about another site ), I won't accept her. I am thinking that could be the case here, though with maybe different reasons.

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keystonekid382 reads

namely, give the lady the necessary information about you so she can feel safe in scheduling a date with you. Or, move on to someone else who has less stringent requirements for screening.

EVERY lady has the right to feel safe in this business.

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earthshined391 reads

they can see your ok's but still might not be able to contact provider. some don't have their phone number or email listed on that page.of course, they could find that info by searching TER but they probably think it's a hassle so they don't do it. even if they do the other provider might not answer so...

I'd contact P411 and ask the question about what info providers can see.if you ask about screening  requirements p411 will probably tell you it's up to the provider to decide what info she wants.

Posted By: dualthought
So far I have always used P411's OK system to go through screening. However, this one provider wanted to get more information than just P411.

I thought providers can directly contact providers who had given me P411 OKs. But looks like that isn't the case?

Honestly, I won't going to see this provider since it looks like I won't pass her screening anyhow.

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macdaddy1944375 reads

simple..the more OK's you have..the less trouble you have booking an appointment..logic says a guy with 17 OK'S will have less trouble with referencing than a guy with only 3..they are only protecting themselves..

Posted By: dualthought
So far I have always used P411's OK system to go through screening. However, this one provider wanted to get more information than just P411.

I thought providers can directly contact providers who had given me P411 OKs. But looks like that isn't the case?

Honestly, I won't going to see this provider since it looks like I won't pass her screening anyhow.

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CaseySterling322 reads

Yes, we can contact other providers who have "okay" you on p411...HOWEVER, that does not mean they will reply or that their account is active. Some ladies never reply and some will reply weeks later...very frustrating! I do know providers(not good ones) who will give "okays" out even though they didn't see someone, so JUST because a guy has an "okay" with a provider doesn't mean I trust or believe it until I speak with her!

I tried to verify a guy through p411 but his most recent 2 provider okays had deactivated accounts, and the only one left to contact he met with nearly 3years back! So naturally I had to ask for some personal information before meeting, then once we meet I gave him an "okay"

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