Hey everyone, I tried to do a search for references, but so much spam came up. I've seen a handful of providers, and now I've run into a couple of providers that ask for references. So, I list the providers I've seen, but is that enough? I know that the providers may or may not remember me, when I leave do I say "Can I use you as a reference?" Or is just providing the phone number of a provider I've used enough?
Since your first three reviews were with BP girls with only ads and no personal web site, many providers will not take refs from providers who don't have a web site. Now your newest review, the provider appears to have a web site. She's going to be your best choice to use as a reference.
Contact her before you give her info to the provider you want to see. Also in the future you might want to ask the provider, as your leaving the session, if you can use her as a ref. Then when you contact her letting her know you'll need a ref from her, give her gentle reminder of your time together, so she'll remember who you are.
Also consider joining P411 or date check which ever is more popular in your area.
Posted By: Firsttimer097
Hey everyone, I tried to do a search for references, but so much spam came up. I've seen a handful of providers, and now I've run into a couple of providers that ask for references. So, I list the providers I've seen, but is that enough? I know that the providers may or may not remember me, when I leave do I say "Can I use you as a reference?" Or is just providing the phone number of a provider I've used enough?
I don't mind, but many ladies like to know when to expect a contact. Also, don't just say "I saw Sandy" giving no info. about her. List their website, or review link so that the provider you are wanting to see can find out if this woman is even legit enough to accept a reference from. Many of us have certain guidelines about who we will accept a reference from. For me, that is a 6 month, credible review history on TER. For others, they might only need a backpage ad.
As HH pointed out, this would not be enough for many reputable TER ladies. We want a vouch from a woman who can't just fall off the map if she has us busted. Someone who worked hard on an image and reputation is much less likely to do such things, knowing it would ruin them.
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