So I assume both of you are fairly new to the hobby.  I'd be wary.  The type of business you are in is worthless to her without knowing who you work for.  So basically all she knows about you is your real name.  I'm not sure I understand what she means by 'if something doesn't match'.  What is she matching is my question.  She would have to google your name and might find out more than you want her to know.  IMHO, you are better using one or both of your reviewed ladies as a reference and/or joining a verification site.

Swim

...other providers who do not require your real name.  Write some reviews or get whitelisted; participate in your local discussion board.  Then you should have enough verification for most providers.

you have multiple references from well known reputable ladies that you have seen recently and you let her know before hand that you are using an alias.

Some providers do check Drivers License and if your name doesn't match your ID that could result in the appt ending before it even began.

This can be avoided by joining a screening service like P411 or Date-Check.