In keeping with all I have learned, I treat and respect providers beyond [better] than I treat my friends.  I recently had an appointment with a highly reviewed provider [Y].  I spent at least an hour getting ready, took off work, called her to check, drive to her condo, get out and check my phone and she had texted me [no phone call] saying her "sister had just come over so we would have to reschedule".  I had been the perfect gentleman and could pass any screening she could do.  I know the message is baloney.  I really thought the provider was cute and was looking forward to seeing her.  I am hurt that it is a form of rejection, but also that she would be so inconsiderate - should I do a review on her on this experience.  I just think this is so rude.  Her website is so full of "let me make your day wonderful" and how "classy" she is.  Why do escorts believe they should be treated with respect when they treat others with no consideration or respect.  Her attitude was very unlike some of her reviews that it makes me wonder how real the reviews are.  I hate to hurt her Independent business, but she has done this in the past.
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Has she done this to you in the past or another client?  Whichever, why would you schedule an appointment with her?  

Horrible feeling, it has happened to me. Unfortunately if you have not seen her, you cant review her, sucks but its the rules, and they are fair. Maybe she would give you an explanation, but doubtful. Their are many ladies, move on and have fun.

That has happened a few times to me, and it's even worse as you are hanging out in a hotel lobby waiting for a text or call that never comes.

to compensate you in some way for your trouble; maybe some extra time.  If not, move on.  Plenty of fish in the sea.

If she has done it to you before, leave her in your past. There is no use in stewing about it. Start your search for someone who wants to see you and will give you the respect you are looking for.

Yes, it is disappointing to be cancelled at all, and more so when the cancellation is last minute.  It is also unprofessional of her to do so without offering some form of compensation or "thank you" for the inconvenience rescheduling would cause you.

There are too many other lovely ladies out there to waste your time.  

...or in advance, I always offer my gentlemen callers a credit, or extra time towards a future date.

When I got NCNS'd, I posted it here and my regional board.  Don't name her in public, but let others know then can PM you for her name.  I also agree with a previous poster, how do you know for sure that her excuse is 'baloney'?  At least you got some warning and not just silence from her like I got.  I made 2 trips across the bay but luckily all it cost me was some time and gas money.  Inconvenient yes, but a total loss, no.

why you are very well thought of in TER land.

it cost you time away from work.  A well reviewed gal wasted my opportunity... once...  but she'll never get the opportunity to do that to me again.  
I agree that you don't necessarily know for sure what happened...  I had a Fav gal who had a death in the family...  it was real...   But give it some time to play out.

1. Don't take it too seriously. Try your best to chill when it happens and it will happen. You'll only drive yourself crazy when you get all work up. It's not worth it. She wouldn't care. It already happened and there's nothing worthwhile you can do about it.
2. Have a backup plan. If there's time (12 - 24 hours) then you can try to book a last minute appointment with someone you have seen before. If it doesn't work and I am horny then I just go to an AMP; otherwise, I just try to forget about it and move on.
3. Keep in mind that you still have your money in your pocket so you still can have your fun when your next opportunity comes up.

Some ladies can have excellent reviews but no business mind, sometimes they even have someone else who takes care of her personal affairs because they may be a disaster in her personal life. I guess in her case, I would give her the benefit of the doubt but obviously, you are not obligated to reschedule, specially when she is not willing to make it right to you.
The problem is that most experiences like yours, can't be documented on the review therefore, there isn't any direct correlation between positive reviews and high sense of responsibility. That is determined by your character and your level of accountability as a provider.

I call BS.that is HER fault not his. she shouldnt be hosting at an incall where friends, family come over.

I did say that she was unprofessional, and no where did I imply this was his fault.

Seriously. Sometimes shit happens.

her for the incall problem and you for saying he has an attitude problem. IMO, he doesnt. perfectly reasonable post on his part.

His attitude is only hurting him.  Cancellations happen.  He is going to be very unhappy in this sport taking it personally.

Stuff comes up.  I know I have cancelled at the last minute.  Sometimes I get to the incall location and it looks shady.  Just the hotel is too cheap, or too much activity going on.  One lady asked me too meet her at a gas station, while I was waiting I was propositioned by a streetwalker.  I backed out of that one.  Or one hotel had a Sheriff parked outside for the entire night.  I didn't really need my plates run or a Sheriff asked what I was doing.  That one was a no go.  Unless it happens alot, I would give her another shot.  If you are simply over it, there are many more out there.

The bottom line is, he was really looking forward to the date, so was very dissappointed in being cancelled on (been there!).
Yes he needs to get a little thicker skin, and that will likely come with experience in this hobby.
The fact is, guys get excited about these dates, especially newbies, that's why we pay such ridiculously high hourly rates to spend time with you.  But it does take the brain a bit of time to transition to the best way to navigate through this world, and its little ups and downs.  I'd guess you probably mentally process and deal with cancellations differently/better now than the first time you were cancelled on at the last minute or had a NCNS.

in the mood for some last minute fun this weekend, and when it didn't pan out with an ATF, I went to one of my favorite massage ladies instead.  So yep, you just descibed my weekend with your post!

It will really help their experiences to understand that - yes, sometimes things happen, we all think that cancellations are disappointing, AND it is not personal rejection.

is the phrase "move on."
We are dealing with individuals here of varying levels of maturity, not smoothly operating corporate entities, so it is unrealistic to expect to encounter the same high level of professionalism with each and every lady.  And beyond that, yes, shit happens - to both ladies and guys