I've searched (both manually and using the search function) for a post that explained how the white list worked and how to get on a providers white list and vice versa. I still can't figure it out. I'd appreciate any advice anyone could give me

You have to ask the provider to "white list" you and then she has to do it.

You may want to check out the White List FAQ pages for some information by going here:

http://www.theeroticreview.com/info_policies/whiteListFAQ.asp

OR click on the INFO & POLICIES link at the top of this page and look for the White List FAQ on the left..

Some ladies use White Listings in their screening process and some don't. It's their decision.

C_K

You can ask a provider to white list you, but she is under no more obligation to white list you that you are to give her a glowing review.

A white listing is the same as a review except it is up to the provider whether or not she wants to whitelist you.

I appreciate all of your responses. You've all been very helpful. I never looked so far up to look at info & policies. I knew this site couldn't be so inefficient to not have something like that, my dumb fault for not finding it heh

that in order for you to be whitelisted she has to do so as part of the process, not that she has an obligation to do so simply because you requested it.

Can't read minds, and it could be read either way, but...