Had my first experience with a provider today. I am now officially a hobbyist, in my book at least. I'm too busy to date and have enough disposable income to afford a monthly tryst with a provider, so I think I might have found the perfect hobby. Beats stamp collecting.

My first experience surprised me. Had an incredibly stressful couple of days and was VERY nervous about meeting a provider for the first time. Within minutes, though, she had me relaxed. My day was forgotten and she was the only thing on my mind.

A warning to newbies who, like me, have done their research: leave your expectations at the door. I had a list of "menu" items in my head I wanted to hit. I won't go into a blow by blow account of the session (pun intended). Suffice it to say that she started me out with an absolutely incredible bbbj. We then went on to much more. As wonderful as it was, I have to admit that it also felt strange to just dive into such an intense experience with a young woman (much younger than me) that I'd met only moments before. And, stupid guy that I sometimes am, I was more concerned at the beginning with checking menu items off my list than in getting to know the girl--physically and through casual conversation.

What I discovered, eventually, was that I really enjoyed caressing her and talking to her. And she seemed to genuinely enjoy it too. She even commented on the skill of my touch. Making her feel good is really what made me feel good.

I guess what I'm saying is this. After one very brief encounter, it seems to me that a relationship with a provider is just that: a relationship. A little unorthodox, maybe, but a relationship nonetheless, within the confines of the hobby. If I had just forgotton about my friggin' "menu" items, and focused on the points of chemistry between us, I think the session would have been spectacular.

I liked the girl a lot. Next time (and I hope there is one), I'll focus on whatever resonates in the moment. If I spend an hour caressing her while she moans softly, that's wonderful. If I'm enjoying her spectacular oral skills, I'll enjoy it to completion--no matter what time it is. After all, the chemistry between 2 people is always a process of discovery. And I suspect that letting it develop is just as important in the client-provider relationship as it is in any other.


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What a great post!

Thanks for sharing your first experience with us.  I'm so pleased to hear you had such a great time and hope you go on to have many more

Excellent points in your missive, one and all. Its delightful to hear that you had a great experience. You said that had it not been for your "check list" your experience would have been spectacular, but fear not - that simply means you have something to build on for future endeavors. It sounds as though your own wisdom and what you have gleaned from these discussion boards served you very well indeed though, and that is great!

I'm sure the review of your maiden voyage will be worth the read :o )

That will make the voyage into hobbyism complete.

Swim

what you picked up in one session.

Oh, to think the places you'll go. 8o)

Good post.  Now, to complete your entry into the hobby, post a review so we can get the "full story".  You have learned quickly to go with te flow.  Most of these ladies really know what they are doing.

I too want to thank you for your insightful post.  I'm a virgin newbie, still being careful and doing my research so as to avoid LE and other complications. I was very pleased to read about your experience and I will take your advice to heart when it is my turn to join the ranks.