Maybe she won't see you because

you're a lobbyist. Nobody likes lobbyists!  Just kidding you, I know you meant hobbyist.  

See if she will take a service like Room Service 2000 (or Preferred 411 I think is the other one I've heard of)  Is this truly the only girl you want to see?  You may need to try someone else first.  Believe me, I know what you mean by having a total jones for this girl, it just might not work for you.
You'll get there bro, just hang in.  

cheers and good luck,

BBxxx

What you said isn't adding up.

If you've been a hobbyist for a while, you DO HAVE REFERENCES. You have plenty.

Reviews on this site have nothing to do with references.

References are women you've been with who can vouch for you. As long as they have a website or somewhere the girl can verify THEM, and they verify you, you're good.

Plenty of long-timers I'm sure come here with no reviews, but plenty of references.

BTW - If you're a long-timer why are you so stuck on one girl. She's the only one you have an interest in seeing ever?!?

TTYL.

The verification sites that I know are Date-Check, Preferred411, and RSK2. Ask the lady if she accepts any of these as verification, and join one if she does. If she doesn't, you're either out of luck, or you'll have to force yourself to see some other ladies first to get some references. All things considered, that doesn't sound like torture.

Hey it happened to me too

but that was then this is now!  She came back to town and I saw her then.  It was worth the wait.

Wouldn't you rather see a gal who is meticulous about her safety?  If you want to hobby, you'll hobby.  In time you will see this gal or your dreams.

The one thing I have learned is that there will always be new gals that you Jones for.

You don't need to have written any reviews to get a reference. If you've been hobbying for awhile, ask one (or two) of the providers you saw recently if she would be willing to act as a reference. You don't need to have written a review of her for her to be your reference.

But I'm unclear on one thing. If you have been hobbying for awhile, but have no references, does that mean you have been seeing a lot of providers who do not require any references? That's a bit iffy.

You really need to spend more time checking out this site more.  There is no way that only one provider appeals to you.  No matter what you desire, there are probably dozens of providers that will fulfill your fantasies.  Do Not Pester Her!!!  It will not make her want to see you more and you may get blacklisted.  Calm down, do some well thought out searches for your area and you will be surprised.