but you'll have to be more forthcoming in describing your process in selecting, preparing, and meeting a lady, for anyone to be much help to you. I've read about such a thing in a few (out of the many) reviews, and I've never experienced short appointments myself. You need help, and quick.
Oh, and why do you post on the Newbie board when you have reviews going back to 2003?
First let me say that I've never had a bad experience with a provider and have always gotten what I wanted, sometimes even more. But most of the time when I schedule a 60 minute session, it's all over around minute 30 and I get he feeling she wants me rushed out her door. So usually my hour sessions last about 40 minutes - from entering the door to leaving. I think the shortest I was in and out the door in less than 30 minutes. How common is this and what can I do to avoid this from happening in the future? Is it inappropriate to ask to start out by talking and kissing and giving each other a little massage? Is it rude to stay and talk with the girl a little afterward even if your hour is not up? Or is this just part of the hobby that I have to deal with?
but you'll have to be more forthcoming in describing your process in selecting, preparing, and meeting a lady, for anyone to be much help to you. I've read about such a thing in a few (out of the many) reviews, and I've never experienced short appointments myself. You need help, and quick.
Oh, and why do you post on the Newbie board when you have reviews going back to 2003?
Thanks for your response. and it's a fair question. I did see some providers in 2003 and 2004 but have taken a break until recently, so I still consider myself a Newbie. Plus, I thought this topic belonged on the Newbie board
It used to be common for a person to be one and done despite the one hour that was offered. Now with TER, gals are held to some truth in advertizing.
You are seeing the wrong gals. Look for reviews that mention whether or not the client got his full hour, and see those gals. I'm willing to wager that you'll have a better experience all around.
Sorry to hear about you're not so great experience,but you have to read the reviews of the ladies and see if there's an indication that the ladies rushes or tries to get you leave before your time is up.If this keeps happening but the reviews didn't say anything about the lady rushing then maybe it's something you're doing...i don't know that shouldn't keep happening.
I'm glad you've been happy and satisfied with your experiences so far, but that isn't considered acceptable behavior from reputable providers. If you're paying for an hour, and she rushes you out the door before that hour's over, she's ripping you off. It's one thing if YOU don't want to stick around for the full hour (for any reason -- need to get back to work/home, loss of interest, just tuckered out and only want to nap), it's another if she's the one cutting it short and telling you to get dressed and leave. An hour's an hour, no matter what you do during it.
Exactly, a provider should not rush you. That said, we are not mind readers, so if you get up and leave early then don't complain later that you didn't get a full hour. On the other hand,if we try to talk/massage/have a drink or whatever first and you are in a hurry or want to get right to it, then you have to take the lead. I know the term "GFE" gets thrown around a lot but it ought to at a minimum be unrushed, with some before and after affection/talking/kissing etc and not just "the deed and done"
I'm sorry to hear that you've experienced less than stellar dates I don't think it should be that way and I always like to talk a little to get to know someone and am happy to give a short massage to start things off. I also like to spend some time talking afterwards if there's extra time left over and we are both spent I think you should read reviews and make sure the ladies you are picking aren't clock watchers.
You should get the entire time you paid for. I have several regulars that schedule an hour, sometimes two, most of the time we are finished with the sex early, I leave it up to the client if he wants to stay and talk, take a nap a nice back rub or whatever. I never consider it rude, and no client should have to deal with being rushed out the door before the time he paid for is up.
You should. I'm assuming that you show up well groomed? Washed, teeth brushed, wearing clean clothes, etc. One thing you don't mention is if you...er...you might want to stick with women who allow multiple pops. Or perhaps try some FBSM ladies?
Yes it is, unless YOU have to rush out the door. You booked for an hour. I am sorry that this has happened to you. Not all are like that. I love conversation and getting to know my "date". I like to know something about you and what you enjoy. I can't imagine rushing through something I get so much fun out of.
Ask her for a massage and see what happens. I am sure she would be ok with. If not...
anyways..I am curious, the women you saw did they have reviews? Did it anyone mention this on their review.. Maybe you should..
Generally any well reviewed and professional lady will be a full hour, or whatever is scheduled.
I have had nearly zero issues with time or MSOG. I have had one lady that did not offer MSOG for an hour session.
The times I do run into this issue is when booking, I'll call them less professional, ladies from BP ads, etc. Don't get me wrong, many reputable and professional ladies advertise on BP.
However, you can usually tell when it's one and done regardless of the time booked. Usually these ladies offer quarter/half hour rates, and there can be other signs.
Stick with well reviewed TER ladies and you should do OK. If they boot you, then reflect that in your review. Unfortunately, the rushed/unrushed field does not change after the first review, so your only recourse is to change the performance score. Not the best option, but your only one.
If they day an hour you should get an hour. BUT a lot of providers feel once you have cum the secession is over. That is what you came there for. To Cum. Make the secession last longer. When you are close. Change positions. The ladies I see, I tell them I am about to cum. One of the ladies said. Don't worry. I will give you two pops. And she did. Talk to them. Don't just go cum and leave. Half the fun of the hobbie is to find out about the person you are with. You may find a friend. I did.
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I don't think it should be that way and I always like to talk a little to get to know someone and am happy to give a short massage to start things off. I also like to spend some time talking afterwards if there's extra time left over and we are both spent
I think you should read reviews and make sure the ladies you are picking aren't clock watchers.