From two providers both have stopped conversations with me, one actually cursed me out.  I'm as polite as I can be to them, and actually I actually have the donations, but it's like I have really bad luck.  Can someone help me out I don't know?

are giving you the heave-ho, then it has to be something you did.

Did you discuss specific sex acts on the phone or email?  Did you not follow their protocalls?  Did you drive over their dogs?

We need to know more details.

One more question:  Did you ever study the Self Help/Newbie Manual before launching your hobby career?

...or what you need to do differently.  

Just a stab at it here but if you are asking them what they will do (sexual specifics) that's definitely going to get hang ups and told off. If you're not placing the envelope/donation down upon arrival that's a problem too.

Read All of the Self-Help Center (upper right under the red & white life preserver). Especially the links under the Provider Relations 101 heading.

well the first one everything went ok so good that she agreed for me to buy her something and bring it to the encounter.  In her site it said that she likes for people to say what they want so I did.  It was sexual and everything and she agreed to do this through e-mail.  On the day of the encounter I'm blocks away from her place and I tell her again how do I like or expect it to be and she just curses me out??

last one everything went ok as usual and I asked if I can explain to her what I want.  She said yeah and agreed to (like the first one).  Now I go and she never comes back because of transportation issues (to her place).  Waited her for hours , she did say she'll make it up, now I email her and nothing??

got too explicit in communications.  This is a big red flag.  Since we only know what you posted, it's hard to say.  I would recommend you look more closely at reviews to see what services a lady offers, rather than trying to ask for certain things.  You keep asking for specifics, you are gonna get more doors slammed in your face.

Get VIP if you don't have it and read the read reviews and websites.  Then you won't have to ask questions that might get the results you got so far.  Even without knowing exactly what you said, it's pretty obvious that you asked some innappropriate questions, or made some wrong statements.

Swim

...apparently she was ok with discussing specifics in e-mail but not over the phone while you were actually on the way to see her ie. mnutes away. Law Enforcement will try to get providers to say specific sex acts for money so they will have a case against her. When guys keep discussing specific sex acts it makes the lady scared he mght be LE. No wonder she got mad and expressed her displeasure. Especially since it had been covered already in the e-mail.  

The second lady may have begun to be wary also because you got specific. Though you did say she said it was OK. That in itself is odd because many ladies won't discuss at all specific sex acts in initial contact and won't discuss sex in association with money at all. She could however simply be a flake and just didn't show for whatever reason.

Again, read the Self-Help Center,All of it. That will tell you what to do & what you did wrong. Being a newbie also makes the ladies more cautious with you.

Swimtrekr's advice is right on. Buy the TER VIP membership and use it to check the profiles & reviews of providers you are interested in. Get the specifics from the reviews. Then you won't have to ask. Stick with providers that have lots of reviews and many of the reviews are by guys that have written many reviews.

Read back on this board for more answers & check out the search feature.

Welcome, have fun.

As far as the first one, she answered you the first time. After that it comes across as you playing games (might not have been what you meant, but that is how it is coming across). Read reviews and then you wouldn't need to ask things that shouldn't be asked. The ladies with a good head on their shoulders will not speak to someone that haven't met about specific acts.  

Yes us ladies deal with guys who want us to talk dirty and then flake on an appt. It happens. Or as mentioned, LE.

Future references, no matter what she says... just read the reviews/ad and decide to book upon that. You need to be safe as does she. No talking about sex acts!