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DixieJay 1204 reads
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This burns me up:(  But maintain composure:)  I had the same thing happened when I first started.  I learned a heard lesson---always get and check envelope first!  I always do within 5 minutes.  That way it saves the time of weeding out rip offs:)  I hope this helps:)

CaseySterling3262 reads

I meet this guy through cityvibe.com...He was a newbie and said he only saw one girl previous. I'm newbie friendly so I told him I'd see him.

He requested a special outfit for me to wear and asked a lot of question(such as newbies usually do) I'm usually very in tune with whether a client is serious or just wasting time. I got the "i'm just new" vibe from him.

LONG story short he arrived at the correct time and the agreement was 250 kisses. After all he only got head(as he said traffic was bad and he had to get back to work) As he was leaving he said "oh no! don't want to forget this" and he laid the bank envelope on the table.I hugged him goodbye and said for him to e-mail me. He rushed out but I expected that since he said he had to get back to work.
Inside the envelope was pieces of paper ripped in dollar bill sizes to make it look like the envelope was full.No money inside...

So what now? I'm a nice person until you piss me off! I want to blacklist him so bad he'll never get pussy in this town again! What can I do for revenge?

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DixieJay1205 reads

This burns me up:(  But maintain composure:)  I had the same thing happened when I first started.  I learned a heard lesson---always get and check envelope first!  I always do within 5 minutes.  That way it saves the time of weeding out rip offs:)  I hope this helps:)

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CaseySterling1325 reads

I never count the kisses beforehand...I think it looks tacky. Since I offer the GFE I want them to feel it's not JUST about the money.Plus if it is an undercover sting then checking the envelope AFTER works better.

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BadLogic724 reads

I'm a guy, and if you want to preserve the illusion that you're there for some romantic reason, DON'T CHARGE ME!  Let's face it, we both know why we're in the room.  Have the guy put it in the restroom and then excuse yourself so you don't need to count it in front of him if that is more appealing.  Also, if not getting paid is a key part of your screening, getting ripped off is the least of your worries.

I feel bad for you, but use it as a learning experience.  Get paid upfront and screen, screen, screen.

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lisette4u739 reads

and count it and all is done eom

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impposter843 reads

I kind of prefer a system where she can discretely check things first, if she so chooses: table then I go to bathroom or bathroom then she goes to bathroom. Once I feel that she knows all is well and is comfortable, I can be more comfortable.

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OneWord981 reads

Sorry to hear that happen, but you should check the money before the session starts.  Also when cleints place the money on the night stand, Providers sheould secure it before starting anything.

I had a provider once be really rude during the session, and stop the session 5 minutes early and sat there and looked at the clock and wouldn't talk to me. She went to the rest room, and left me sitting on the bed, next to the money alone.  Since she was so rude to me, I kindly taught her a lesson that day.

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NewHobbyGuy12667 reads

What a loser! I mean seriously. You wonderful ladies provide something that is needed by whom ever at great risk to yourself and for something like that to happen. Brings all us good clients down and definately hurts your bottom-line so to speak.

Personally I would email him or leave a message on his phone stating "I hope you enjoy the raging Herps I gave you" and end it with "There's several creams that can help with the burning while you pee"

But that's just me. Even if it's not true. Let him sweet it a little. Jerk!

And think about it! And if he writes a bad review or whatever. You should have his address and stuff from his ID. I'd swing by his house or place and see if he has a lil woman or wifey and have a nice little chat. Wouldn't give away too much. Just that you're carrying his child and you're keeping it. Also, that if you and he hadn't been intimate. How would you know where he lives?!

But again. That's just me. Well best of luck to you and thank you for what you do. Hope things go way better the next time around.

NewHobbyGuy12

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Ashley20103780 reads

He is blacklisted on all of the local hobby boards. He targets girls who are new, don't screen, or not connected with the local hobby boards. He has many phone numbers and names he uses, but always the same story

You are very lucky he broke one girls pelvis and seriously hurt another girl. If anything you need to get connected with the local hobby community for your safety. He is not the only jackass hobbyist out there. He has done this to many girls.

Email me, I don't bite and I have a huge local blacklist programed in my phone

[email protected]

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Ashley2010665 reads

He is quite the crafty one and will use different names, emails, and phone numbers. Don't be too hard on yourself he has gotten a lot of providers that proclaim to be screening nazis. Luckily I was forwarned about him before he ever contacted me. Now I have all of his numbers programed to go straight to vm when he calls. I wish the laws were different so providers didn't have to live in fear when something bad happens.

I'm to the point now, I don't see anyone who doesn't have provider refs but somehow knows the screening system. It's funny when I ask for refs and they automatically go into secondary screening(employment) without me asking. That leads me to wonder why not a single provider would give them a positive reference. I'm still newbie friendly, if they really are new.

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Posted By: highheelbarbie
So what now? I'm a nice person until you piss me off! I want to blacklist him so bad he'll never get pussy in this town again! What can I do for revenge?
Blacklist him to help protect the other providers in the community.  We, mostly the women, need to identify and police dangerous thieves like him.  Blacklists and reviews aren't foolproof, there's always the guy who was a good client and then snaps, but anyone who has done it once is likely to do it to other women.

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Posted By: highheelbarbie

So what now? I'm a nice person until you piss me off! I want to blacklist him so bad he'll never get pussy in this town again! What can I do for revenge?
Sorry this happened to you Barbie.  Like Ashley already posted this guy is already blacklisted locally and nationally.  If you check the Alerts section of stlasp you can find some info on him as well.  He's done this to A LOT of providers.

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Crazy Diamond1292 reads

We hobbyists have the option and obligation to out ROB's via reviews...you should do likewise in whatever forums you have available with the local ladies in your area, as well as with the national community.  He will pull this shit again, so best you post alerts as needed!

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shudaknownbetter604 reads

is that there are rip off artists out there unfortunately.  Resolve to never let this happen again.  

YOU decide where the donation goes, in advance of any action.  You verify it quickly & secure it in a safe place where he will not get access to it later.   It is much more discreet to either place it a the bathroom & then you go in or on a table or dresser before he goes in the bathroom.   You must, at least, open the envolupe & flip through the bills if not totally counting.
skb

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