Continuing on with my endeavor. I am the wife of a upcoming birthday boy who is searching for a special provider to make it a 10 experience. I found a gal that seems perfect who is far, far from us. But one stop on her tour is about two hours south of us. Is it okay to ask her to come further north? If so, how would that best be approached?

If she would be willing to come to you.. Some ladies may travel for the right situation or length of appointment depending on the interaction but you won't know unless you ask..or perhaps you guys could go visit her or meet half way at a hotel?

to simply explain the situation and ask her what it would take to make it work for her. I'm a direct sort of guy so that's what I'd do. I certainly believe that it's fine to ask.  A similar scenario is this.... Flagstaff, Az. is about a two hour drive North of Phoenix. There are several women in Phoenix who state in ads or their websites that for a two or three hour minimum booking they are happy to make that drive to Flag. Even easier to get women to do it in the Summer as Phx is hot as hades while Flag, being much higher in elevation, is very pleasant in the Summer.
   I'm not sure the two locations you are dealing with but perhaps the place you want her to visit has something to offer that the tour city doesn't?
    Good luck yo you and I hope it all works out to everyones mutual satisfaction!
             Regards.....RR

Great minds think alike Paloma!!!

If you would ask me that, I would be nice cuz I like your ass, but anyone else, I would be say, "Sure honey, I will ask my pilot if he minds waiting" lol.

For you... we will come there!

now that is an awesome gift!!!  Do you have a sister??  LOL  Good Luck..

the more likely she will be to go that far out of her way. Also be prepared to be asked for a deposit. I am normally dead set against giving an advance deposit, but if you are going to ask her to travel that far to see you, it would not be unreasonable for her to ask for one. Obviously you need to do your research to make sure she is reputable enough to make said deposit.

It will be a 4 hour date. My budget is only 2K. Thinking about traveling 2 hours south to meet her if necessary. Research indicates it would be worth it. But would probably have to give up the limo and night on the town idea. Hmmm... decisions.

Thanks for your help! Now to pass the screening.

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Congrats! Hope you all have a wonderful time, you're SO is a lucky guy!!
                      Regards......RR