Question for all you seasoned folks in here.  So, this being my first time in the hobby, I've recently booked a session with a well reviewed provider several days ago.  After reading her website thoroughly, I noticed the reservation page asked for previous provider references as well as employment information.  I wrote her a quick email explaining my lack of experience, but said I was willing to share work info.  I figured I'd be ignored or turned down promptly, but instead, she responded cheerfully and asked me to clarify time and session length. I wrote back and we solidified plans for this week. Maybe stupidly so, on one of my later return emails, I reiterated that I'd still be happy to share information to her satisfaction. But so far ignored my offers.

My question is this - should her ignoring the need for these seemingly crucial elements cause caution?

I ask because I figured with no references, I'd be required to divulge a bit more. Should I be happy I wasn't screened and quit this paranoia?

Thanks to any helpful responses.

You most likely have nothing to worry about she may have been in a rush to make the app. just hope theres no rush during app.

She's already agreed to meet you, so don't send any additional personal info.  To avoid future hassles,  consider a screening service like P411 or DateCheck.  --z  

If she is a well reviewed provider as you say, you should be fine. Some ladies have alternate methods of screening. (she may have screened you through your email address or something), and some ladies occasionally do not screen even though they say they do. If it were an unknown lady with no reviews and no screening, I might worry, but if she is established, I wouldn't worry. At this point the risk is on her, not you.

rents due, so is the car payment and insurance, you'll find screening becomes less important to some providers when the bills are due.

Will post a review of my first experience.

Maybe the very fact that you were willing to give it made her drop the question.

What's the upside now in giving her your work info?  You have an appointment.  Mission accomplished.

Likely your openness about being new and willing to give her information was enough for her to trust you.

You followed the common advice to "stick to well known providers" and you have an appointment. I don't think anybody here can give you any more assurances than that. You're right in the same place in the game where the rest of us have been and now you just have to decide whether you want to play or not.

If you're married like a lot of us, you will, of course, have to start worrying about getting busted in ways other than LE that can ruin your life just as much. If you haven't thought of those, you will.

about yourself, u may have gotten screened and not even known it.

Yes you are right about that.....there is a girl that I see regular who at the end of the month will answer the phone when well endowed guys that she has seen calls. She normally does not repeat with them unless those bills are due and she needs to book herself heavy. Just an example as how some may also skip screening to book heavy to pay bills.