i'm interested in trying one of the AMP around my area.  i've heard all the horror stories involving the authorities.  thus i was wondering if having the lady come to me (if outcall was offered) would be a safer bet.  to all those with experience, any thoughts?

Find an Indy in your area who does incall... in general, the ladies are more comfortable with incall because of control over the situation.  You avoid extra cost and are secure with well reviewed folks.

in large cities (New York, to name one) there are Asian massage agencies who will send an Asian woman to you (usually only to better hotels right in the city).

I have done this on several trips to NYC and always been very happy with the service.

It's usually just a very good massage and a hand release, but if you are staying several days and ask them to come back the next night, I have gotten great BBBJ and more.

Quite economical too.  (~$200)