Hi everyone, I am new to this and my question might seem naive and strange.. but someone please!! help!!
I wanna have an experience with a female escort and am paranoid about std's via bbbj (oral sex) and kissing (DFK)
I have read around 30 reviews on the provider I'm interested in and noticed that every one of the clients say they received BBBJ without a rubber and had DFK.  I'm still gonna do it but want to have the best experience possible..
What are the risks, chances etc.. why does no one where a rubber except for the main event?
And, is it normal to request a STD check up from the provider?  
Ty.

That's a great question the fact of the matter is that this might be like Russian roulette. I personally inspect the people I will be offering my companionship too before we even start. Of course not all STDS are noticeable but some of the big ones are. HIV and many others are very uncommon for one to catch via BBBJ or oral sex for that matter.  

I have heard a terrible story on a TV Emergency room show (I think it was called "sex sent me to the ER."  A girl gave her lover a CBJ and she somehow inhailed the condom and it became lodged in her trachea!  She almost suffocated to death!  Can you imagine the horror?  I am not joking.  THAT scares me more than anything.

Ask her for a STD checkup ... that's incredibly RUDE!. The same goes for asking her to use Listerine, or brush her teeth before the bbbj. Just ask her for a "covered bj" (with a condom) if you are that worried. It's not an issue to wear a condom for oral, but DON'T come off as a "germ freak" and ask her if she's "clean" etc. Remember she's a person and be respectful/grateful. Skip it if you can't be a total gentleman - she's the one doing you a favor. A BBBJ is without a condom because it feels better to most men. There is some risk, but remember that she's a pro and you are certainly safer than picking up some "strange" in a bar. Enjoy yourself. Tip if she's good and RELAX. The hobby is about having fun. Welcome to the dark side.

When I first started I used condoms for BJ and that never happened to me. I think T.V. just makes situations more dramatic then what they are. No way you can swallow a condom, I'm a klux and can apply them with my mouth suck away you won't die. LOL

There is plenty of clinical evidence that oral sex is safe sex. Nothing is 100% certain but the only completely safe sex would be no sex at all.
 
Clinical practice -not speculation
From Med-Help
 
Nothing is perfectly safe but based on  doctors involved in clinical practice your chances in getting a serious disease from oral sex are remote. There is NO evidence that you can get HIV.
 
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/oral-sex-question/show/2159728
 
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV-Prevention/Ejaculted-in-the-mouth---Different-circumstances---Please-help/show/1757568
 
 
"Oral sex can usually be considered safe sex. There is a low risk for all STDs and virtually zero risk for some of them.  This has been discussed previously; please read the questions and replies in the threads linked below."  
 
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/Oral-sex-risk---unprotected/show/1700243
 
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/Still-scared-of-a-possible-HIV-transmission/show/141587

I'm soooo stealing that!

Posted By: BlondeRoots

There is no such thing as a BBBJ while wearing a condom.

Bare Back means no condom.  So in this case with BBBJ meaning Bare Back BlowJob, it is always meant to indicate fellatio sans condom.  

And since johns blanche at giving their real info, I say don't ask, unless he provides his too...and on that note, they can be manufactured. Just a bad scene all round.

They say in part:
"Even though oral sex carries a lower risk of HIV transmission than other sexual activities, the risk is not zero. It is difficult to measure the exact risk because people who practice oral sex may also practice other forms of sex during the same encounter. When transmission occurs, it may be the result of oral sex or other, riskier sexual activities, such as anal or vaginal sex.