so i had my first session with a very nice lady yesterday from the bodyrublist family of sites...but i have not seen any mention of them throughout the various threads here so i was wondering if those sites are legit or not?

...but that doesn't prove much. If you used them, had a session, all went well and as advertised then I'd say they're ok.

If they are review sites or anything competitive with what TER does they are not allowed to be talked about or linked to here on this site.

it's difficult to say.  I'm not familiar with that group.  But, if you had a good time with no problems, I'm not sure what you're worried about without more information.

Websites that copy ads from other places such as BP and post them on their site.