So I took the plunge and saw my first provider. As nervous as I was I feel like it was a very pleasant time on both our parts. She asked that I not review our time. Being new I was caught a little off guard by this and didnt ask any more question, just said OK and left it alone. I thought it might have been me so I have asked her for another appointment to see if I got ignored or shot down. She seems more then happy to see me again and has many reviews . So why would a provider not want a review ? she is a traveling provider if that makes a difference?

You could try to figure out why but would it really matter to you? The important things are, you enjoyed yourself and she would be pleased to entertain you again.

Trying to move beyond that may satisfy an underlying curiosity you have but it almost certainly won't improve future experiences with her. In fact it may have just the opposite effect. If you become a regular you will probably learn why.

Thanks. Kinda what I figured. I have no plans on bringing it to her again so it doesn't effect anything .  only reason for concern I have is I'm new and would like to be able to have a review under my belt. So to speak. That seems to releive some concerns of others on these boards.

I would respect her wishes. If you plan to stay with this you will have plenty of other opportunities to review.

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Tell her your reason (newbie wanting to get on the review board) and see what she says

I think everyone reading (and maybe replying) might have some natural way of bringing up the subject again without screwing things up.  

"I wish I could tell everybody how fantastic you are ..."  (Review me.) "You don't mind?  I thought you said you didn't want me to."

"I'm glad you don't want me to review you ... I'd have to tell everyone how great you are." (When did I say that? Go ahead and review.)

"Do you mind if I review you now?"

"What the fuck is your problem?  You got a problem if I review you?  What are you going to do, cut me off?" Oops!  I don't recommend that one!

And so on.  Don't fake the dialog.  If you get along well, you can say some stupid stuff and likely be forgiven.

Mostly: unless it's important to you, don't ruin a good thing

She may have felt comfortable doing things in the session with you that she does not want put in a review. If this be the case she may not want to provide the service given to you to other hobbyist. There have been times I have asked some gentleman not to put certain things in reviews written on me. I tried Greek with a hobbyist, but don't want to make that available to everyone by having it mentioned in my reviews. It was not the first time I met him, so I felt comfortable doing it with him, but not something I want put on my menu of services.  

I understand you may want to write a review on her to develop some type of history on seeing ladies. Simply ask if she would mind providing a reference with for you if you were to consider seeing another provider. Hopefully you're comfortable enough with her to make her your ATF

the provider mentioned it ahead of time, and said it was because she was extremely sensitive to criticism.
In retrospect, I now think it is a way that she tries to control her ratings - as the reviews she DOES have are all extremely positive.
My review would have been mixed, but certainly the lowest of the 9 women I've seen.
She even joked afterwards about a part of our session that she epecially wouldn't want to see in a review!

While I'm still very inexperienced, I was especially so at the time, as it was just my second session ever.
I've mentioned some of what happened to a couple other providers, and they were surprised at how she acted.
With the additional experience I now have, I do think I could deal with a similiar situation better.  Without getting into specifics, she was basically fearful of others outside our hotel room catching on to what was going on.  This fear derailed our session for almost 1/2 an hour.  I haven't seen this level of fear with any other provider.  And there was another issue at the end that I won't go into here.

Lesson learned for me?
If someone tells me ahead of time they don't want reviews, I'd have to think long and hard before scheduling with them.

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Thanks, everyone !!

as previously mentioned, I have been asked to alter or leave out some details.  Reason being she wanted the option of offering certain things or not offering.  So, I respected her wishes, as you should too.  However, if you do see her again, if you want to ask why she didn't want another review, ask nicely.

If she is traveling, she might not want certain people to know she is in a particular city, for some reason or other.

Swim